You can't take no for an answer here, wazzaa. He's probably worried about having to show the old man to the GP and about having the internal exam, as most men are (scaredy cats, the lot of them - they should try having a smear, or a baby....) However, he needs to be dragged, kicking and screaming if necessary, down to the surgery as soon as possible. Point out that you are too young to be a widow, that you love him, and are begging him (if necessary) to make an appointment. Offer to go with him. Make sure he goes. He must have this investigated. Good luck.