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My girlfriend is pregnant and doesnt want it or me

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Patrick19 | 15:49 Tue 23rd Jan 2007 | Body & Soul
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Me and my ex girlfriend have had rocky rides together.
We fell out numerous times and most recently we had a big fall out, that was, until she sent me a text message on my mobile telling me she was pregnant and sending me a picture of the pregnancy test. She has told me she does not want to keep it, but many times has she given much desire to keep it. We broke up last night because of many complications. She told me hurtful things, mainly because of problems such as me being unemployed. I am having to do so much to get my life in order, but I am confused as to her plans. As I know her quite well, I think she has maternal feelings for our baby. But, she tells me she wants an abortion and to never see me again; knowingly, one would believe she has totally made a prerogative on the issue and I am the only loser. I don't know what to do, she wants space and I am going to have to give her some. I think it's a defense mechanism because of many of the things that complicated our relationship, such as me being possessive etcetera.
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Pippa, you said Amanda was a cow and an old duff and now you defend her? Are you out of your f*cking mind? You are as stupid as they come. And Laura, you don't know anything at all. Why do you think we kept having unprotected sex? We ALWAYS had unprotected sex because we both wanted a baby together. I am against abortion as it is absolutely atrocious and inhumane. We both wanted a child; that's what none of you can understand. Let the story be told. I loved Amanda and I still care for her and everything is against me because of a simple "nothing". I am called childish, rapist and other things. But I am not. We wanted a baby and we nearly got there.
My lips are now sealed..

Please come back at a later date to let us know how salamanda is?
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Amanda you deserved not to be raped and stalked. Why are you comparing that with anything at all? I never raped you.
You're right, Patrick, you much too nice a person to do something as awful as that, aren't you(?)

Learn when to leave it, mate.
ssssssssssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhHHHHHH!!! nobody is alowed to say anything gosh!!!
rockonbaby said so..........(tea anyone?)
(whispers)...exept you patrick you cant have one..
Oh go on then...1 sugar please :o)
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I have a message log of a conversation I had with Amanda tonight. It proves she is off her head literally. No wonder we both deserve each other.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
First thing we have ever agreed on, Patrick.

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