Do I Message Him Or Let Him Message Me?

[abbeylee90]

I'm meant to be going with guy I went on a date with on Saturday tonight do I message him if I don't hear from him or let him message me?

[naomi24]

Genuine.

[abbeylee90]

Not going sick and said eventually he does want to 

[scorpiojo]

Will you be paid for the holiday?

[Prudie]

Abbey do you not think all the things you're asking about these dates is now going too far? Posting about whether you're going to have sex or not - and then some will ask you if you did. It's all getting a bit icky. Discuss it with friends not online strangers.

[pastafreak]

Abbey...you're an adult. Try to take on the responsibilities of an adult. No adult takes a week off  at the start of a new job (unless possibly pre arranged medical reasons)...definitely not for a birthday! 

[newmodarmy]

//Not going sick and said eventually he does want to//

Abbey, i've  looked back but I can't work out who you're replying to or what you mean by "and said eventually he does want to". Who is he? What does he want to do? Go on a date with you? Sleep with you? Settle down with you?

One of the reasons your threads keep going over the same ground and are confusing is you post things without checking whether they are going to be understandable to strangers.

[naomi24]

Abbey, have you actually told your boss you want a week off for your birthday?  

[Auntypoll]

Naomi how do you know this is genuine?  This is an anonymous site. No one can know unless they know the person in real life. 

[Auntypoll]

One thing though it's keeping the sites footfall going.😂

[pastafreak]

Auntypoll...we were assured by the Ed a number of months ago that Abbey is genuine. 

[naomi24]

^ditto.

[ladybirder]

That's right it was actually mentioned on here at the time.

[Auntypoll]

How does the editor know she is genuine? Do they know her? He can't even be bothered to sort my avatar after four emails with no reply.  Do you really thing the editors give a hoot who is genuine or not as long as they post and follow the rules?

[newmodarmy]

I think some members have seen Abbey on Facebook and other sites. Still doesn't prove anything but I can believe she's real.. I've known people with similar learning and social difficulties

[barry1010]

Why do people who believe Abbey is fake keep reading her threads and posting on them?  I don't get it. 

[Auntypoll]

How on earth do you find an anonymous ab'er on FB ? When I put my own name in FB there are at least 15 profiles with the same name and it's not that common. Must be some serious stalking going on.🫤

[Auntypoll]

Barry I don't read all of them, skip through them and it's up to me if I want to give advice because who knows there may be somone reading it that really does have those problems so it may help.

[Prudie]

Barry you've been here long enough. We've had a plethora of made up characters over the years. They are often entertaining, espcially when there's not much else to join in with unless you want to tussle in News so it attracts the crowds. . There are at least a couple using the site now, for example do you really think there is someone who has endless problems with cleaning processes or office politics non stop?

[Auntypoll]

 Or is obsessed with orange buckets 😂😂😂

[abbeylee90]

He said about meeting eventually