Family & Relationships3 mins ago
Do I Message Him Or Let Him Message Me?
I'm meant to be going with guy I went on a date with on Saturday tonight do I message him if I don't hear from him or let him message me?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Abbey l am not surprised you are 33 and still single. Think for a minute....would you like to be treated like you are treating this guy? One one hand you've got a guy who really cares about you, goes on holiday and still messages you despite you ignoring him, and on the other a guy who after two dates expects you to have sex with him. Why not give the first guy a chance? I know so manny people in long term relationships that teallyndid not like their partners on the first date, give this guy a chance and go on another date with him.
You said new guy was going to be working over next few days/weeks but I think it's odd that he is not discussing when and where your next meet up for date might be and just checking what nights you free.
Is there no talk of any more dates? Or exciting things to do together? If he only wants you to spend night at his I'm not sure this guy intends having a relationship. More like a one night stand. Just be careful please and don't agree to anything you may regret if he then totally ignored you afterwards.