Ever Had A Friend Of The Opposite Sex

[nailit]

that was only ever a good friend,
But at some point you wanted to bed them?


Ive had a few.
One, I actually did 'bed' them and it turned into a long term relationship.
Another, it ruined a good friendship and we parted ways.
Another, Id like to and very probably could (after a decade of her hinting) but who knows what would happen?
I like female company and friends, but not neccessarily sexual company or friends with benefits type thing.

Is it possible to be friends with the opposite sex and be nothing more than friends without thoughts of sex coming into it?

I posted elsewhere that humans ask themselves only 3 things (Subconciously), when meeting a person for the first time
1) Is this person my enemy?
2) Is this person my friend?
3) Could I have sex with this person?

Have you ever had a friend that you wanted to bonk, to be blunt?
(And how did it turn out if you did)?

[david small]

No. Sexual attraction usually superseded platonic friendship. I find women fascinating, especially very intelligent ones. They are to me sexually attractive.

[davebro]

I have a few very good female friends who I have never considered as sexual partners & vice versa (I think) as no such advances have been made.