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why has this guy im friends with turned on me for no reason?

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selinamc | 18:28 Thu 19th Feb 2009 | Relationships & Dating
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I went out with this guy a couple times but he didnt work out so we stayed friends. I bumped into him saturday night and had a friendly chat with him.
Anyway, on sunday i spke to him a little on facebook and evreything was cool and yesterday he said he didnt want to speak to me anymore and said hed changed his number because hes gives his number out alot and doesnt want too many people texting him and textd me saying hes report me to the police if i did, which is completly pyscho right?
I think he was obviously making this up but it just seemed very petty and out of character for him but i do know he has a few pychotic issues with ex 2 years ago but were only friends so I dont undertsand why hes suddenly turned on me.
Please Help! hes ***** my head up!
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He's an idiot. Just forget about him. It'll be his way of trying to have some power over you.

Don't waste your time worrying about it!
Don't fall into this trap of feeling sorry for him because he's probably had one of those stupid male things where being friends isn't good anymore. If you try to help him, you'll feel worse; if you don't help him, he'll eventually get the message or just go fishing for other women. He'll get over it, like I said.
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yeah i agree, its like he wants some kind of control over me, i dont get whats triggerd it though, its completly normal when i speak person to him, i just hope he isnt in a foul mood if i see him out again, if he is, cant take it personally I guess!
Just cease all contact with him, he sounds scarily weird.
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Yeah i deleted his number and then he removed me from his facebook friends as if to makea statement which is stupid because i never speak on facebook to him, only on msn and he hasnt removed me from msn which is weird!
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You said it yourself - he's psychotic. Give him a wide berth.
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yeah hes definatly a bit psychotic even if he seems genuine in person, thing is if feels like its personal like ive done something to him but the police thing sometimes familiar because he sed to me once his ex falsly accusd him of rape right b4 they broke up but she dropped charges the next day!
How do you know it was a false accusation, he may have done it. He sounds like the kind of guy I'd love to punch. (Sorry feeling a bit aggressive at the moment, must be my hormones)
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he sed they went out for 5 years, but neva mentiond what really happnd, he sed figuratively she stabbd him in the back, as in betrayd the relationship. i think he ended it and she was so messd up over them bein over she wanted to the same to him.
Hmm, it didn't work out as a relationship, but you are in a state because he won't stay "friends"

I think there is more to this from your side that you are not divulging.
I agree with post dog...............why the hell are you bothering ............

move on, move away fast and dont look back....................

anything else and you are clearly fanning the flames of his phycosis and it might turn against you in a very unhealthy way..............

try and ensure you stay safe by STAYING AWAY!!! if you cant stay away then ask yourself why and GET HELP
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yeah ive deleted his number as thers not much advantage in having it.
i thought he was finel because he see,d happy enough when i seen him last. it just annoys me when someone is being rude for no reason he was rly obnobtious telling me im not m8 material im afraid. wtf! I dont get him

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