posting about how bad men are

[Dr-Legend]

Are users really that interested or fixated even on the intimate workings of certain users relationships with men ?
Do users believe all they read here ?
If they do does that make them smart or less than smart ?

Is your life an open book to be thumbed through by faceless people online or do you maintain a degree of privacy ?

[Drisgirl]

O guilty as charged Leg !

Whats got into you and yip the cap fits.

[Drisgirl]

Hey Roaldo I know to my costs that whats printed in the papers is a heap of cr@p so just as well to post it on here at least its straight from the horses mouth so to speak -you can even watch the drama unfold with me -some people would pay good money for that !!!

[figure]

If you tell the truth hen there's no need to remember a lie.

[figure]

'then'

[Drisgirl]

Hey Figs -thats my philosophy which i instilled in my kids and tried to with my husband -unfortunaely he doesnt have a good memory and I do -tough !!

I really dont see the point in lying although sometimes to spare feelings I are kinder in the way I tell them if necessary.

[barney4444]

All a bit heavy and intense for a bank holiday innit....

[yellowbelly]

i reckon people come on here to air there views and see what other peoples views are, because there dont seem to be that many questions with proper answers. They all go off at a tangent.

[figure]

Hi Drissy! How are you doing? xx

[Drisgirl]

Hey Figs -just fine -out of the sun fo a minute then back into planting them goddam flowers which have been in their containers for weeks now -cant be bothered but I have to unleash them -its rosty tosty here today -no company tho which sucks -really good BBQ weather xxx

[Dr-Legend]

Hi dris.

No i just wonder as to the point of it all?

If indeed there is a point


That may be the point ,
that there is no point.


Infact i opften wonder does a pointless task have a point to it ?

[cazzz1975]

I agree with figure, liars come unstuck pretty quickly..

normally over a period of time you can gauge certain users personalities only then you make your own informed decision about how truthful they may come across.

up to that point you cannot assume everything that is posted it total bull. I of course am only talking about people that post events or need advice for issues that they may be facing.

I am not talking about people who post insulting or rude posts aimed at getting attention or causing rows (trolls/clones)

[LAW_DROP-OUT]

yes i agree with yellow belly ... about USERs on AB , oftenly going of at tangents ........CHATTERBANK also creates a lot of "forum " , write or reply discussions ,,,,, airing opinions ..

[Drisgirl]

O I get it -its the Dr bit -so its a PHD you have and not a Medical one -ahh its all becoming crystal clear now.

I agree cazzz -I would always know if it were a genuine ABer-perhaps in the depths or whatever -think that was pretty apparent when 'I' posted on Saturday night -the peeps who know me knew it wasnt and couldnt have been me.Sad tho in a way that sometimes AB can be your only refuge in the wee small hours -however I havent ever felt let down and I dont think anyone else has either.Its a trust thing and i know the people I trust on here.

[crisgal]

surely if those who are thumbing are faceless, as well as the thumbees, then privacy will always be maintained won't it?
no-one knows who we are, do they??

[Dr-Legend]

Trust is a two way thing
without it in return its not trust
merely faith
faith in your fellow man
unfortunately faith is not always the solace that we seek from it
it can be a burden
even a pain

[Dr-Legend]

Exactly crisgal
if noone sees who we are
then noone see the true us
hence not all that you see here is true
some may be small diversions from the truth
others may be more
how are we to tell the true truth from the false truth?

Even if its the truth
is it the honest truth ?
or a truth constructed for some other purpose

[Drisgirl]

I have faith and trust Leg -always have !!
Crisgal -some of my closest friends post here and I have met them and maintain a close friendship off line -i also maintain close friendships with others who I speak with or EMail so no its not faceless -I woudnt want it any other way.
Hard to be private when youre naturally an open person-well for me anyway lol.

[Dr-Legend]

though a book is open
it doesnt mean that you have read all that it contains
we sometimes skip pages aor lines whilst reading a book
as we do in life when we skip things that may raise questions we either find embarassing to ask
or awkward.
this doesnt make us bad
it just makes us humean
and through being human
we make mistakes