My son is getting married within the next few months and I learnt today that his soon to be wife compiled the seating arrangements as to who sits where and with whome with her friend without any consultation with my son
Surely it matters what he thinks about aspects of the wedding like this?
If he's anything like my son, he would have been pleased to leave her to it. At long as she hasn't put you in a corner or at the back, I wouldn't worry.
It's nice to be asked, but I was of the impression that the groom's job was to turn up, preferably reasonably sober. Unsure what he'd be unhappy about regarding who sits where, but if he thinks his friends should be on a better table he should say so.
The wonderful wedding I attended today was organised completely by the bride and groom together......family arrived yesterday to help set everything up...there was no seating plan....we just chose our seats and had a shuffle around during the courses to chat to others....x