My Husband drew up his short-list an hour after being told his brain tumours were terminal - it gave him some comfort and control on a day that spiralled way out of his hands.
Each to their own, 237SJ - but I think funerals should be a celebration of the life of the departed - and if someone knows me well enough to remember what would make me smile, then that's appropriate in my book.
Gness - I can assure you that there is nothing wrong with my life and it is certainly not dour. That comment says more about you than it does about me. I'm suprised at you - from your posts on here I always thought you were a happy fluffy bunny type.