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Why Do Some Guys Pick Body Over Face?

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MelanieH86 | 07:54 Sun 28th Apr 2013 | Society & Culture
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I googled this a lot, and I see that most guys all say that they will not date an ugly girl. And they will say they will take the chubbier girl with the prettier face over the ugly girl with a thin body. I would like to meet these guys because I am always overlooked because of my body. I am overweight (I am working on losing weight) and I get turned down all the time. There is this guy I am in love with, and he chose some ugly bitch over me just because her body is hot. She is hideous and disgusting. Her face is the ugliest thing in the world, so why would her choose her nasty ass? And this happens all the time, and not just to me but other women I know. Us beautiful gorgeous girls get overlooked for some ugly skinny thing. I could understand if she were skinny and hot, but she is NOT. Ugly girls don't deserve love.

See, I can lose weight and be even more hotter than I am now. She can't change her face. Ugly pathetic loser of a bitch she is.


So here is the question and be perfectly honestly. The ugly pathetic loser of skinny girl, or the beautiful gorgeous girl who is curvy. Real women have curves anyway.
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Venting is fine. Beauty is in the eye on the beholder. You will be prejudiced since you are emotionally involved and disappointed. Not every guy finds skinny attractive just and not every one find fat attractive. Horses for courses, but the majority probably prefer something in between. Hang in there to find the right person for you, meanwhile try not to...
10:33 Sun 28th Apr 2013
I thought my advice was good //Work on your confidence and keep your curves// Men like confidence.

It usually helps when you give a little detail, especially age as it helps to answer the question appropriately. I wouldn't suggest: jumping into bed with him to see what he is missing if you are 14; going out for a drink to talk things over if you are 17; Street dancing on rollerskates with each other if you are 71.

As I said : Work on your confidence and keep your curves, but if your size is causing you the confidence issue, join a weight loss class.
What advice do you actually want? You fancy someone who fancies someone you think is minging and you're jealous.

My advice: get a grip.
Yeah well sadly that's just life. Fat people, thin people, ugly and pretty people all have the same basic needs and nature is clever and always finds someone for them who thinks they are most gorgeous thing ever eventually. If you think you have it bad, when I went somewhere with my boyfriend I actually heard someone he knows say ' Oh my God she's GINGER!!!'- Wow who could love a ginge eh? lol
Lose weight for yourself not because you think someone will find you ' hot' - they won't- it's just as Ummm says you can't force someone to find you sexually attractive, so wait until you find the right man and try to curb you anger a bitterness a bit because that's more unattractive than anything.
I actually think women think men are far more interested in faces than they really are. I've often heard 'you don't look at the mantelpiece when you poke the fire'.
Luckily, the AB expert is here..............sqad.

As far as "blokes " are concerned..."fat birds" are at the end of the queue.......if there is nobody left at the end of the evening, only a "fat bird"....the why not?....nothing to lose. Fat birds tend to be less sensitive to the touch than thin ugly birds........so don't expect too much in the sex division.

With an ugly bird with a good body one can close one's eyes and think of someone attractive whilst petting and making love.

Anything else you want to know?
Sqad!!! Do you have shares in a counselling service by any chance?? :) xx
Shari....LOL
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Well advice like AlwaysConfused or something similar who is taking the time to actually answer thoughtfully. Not a "Well you have a really horrible personality." Or "Stop eating chips."

I am working on losing weight, but in my personal opinion like I said, weight shouldn't be an issue if you have a pretty face. Everyone is constantly telling me how beautiful I am did. For a year, I modeled plus sized clothing because they said I had the right face for it.

I can lose weight. Which eventually I will. I've gone down 15 pounds already in a month. She can't change her face.

So I am asking, why would a guy choose a girl (who he has once said "She's not a looker but god that is sexy body!") who isn't that attractive over someone who is? And he has told me in the past I have a pretty face. So therefore I am not trying to force someone to think I am attractive either.

And I am not the only one I know this to happen to. I've known other girls who don't have a pretty face get chosen over a pretty face but fat body. It doesn't make sense. The face and personality is more important than the body in my personal opinion. I judge guys by their faces, but never their body. It's shallow.
Judging anyone by appearances alone is not the best idea, and amongst my friends I have seen car crash after car crash because people do that. You are ontop a winner in one regard with this man, he knows you and likes you as a person. You might not be his type ( not because you are larger, you just might not be however thin you get). Open up your opportunities a bit, get to know lots of people and stop judging yourself about how large you are. Be happy, confident and someone will come along.
No...what people find attractive is important. You're talking about what you 'think' people should find attractive.
People can be shallow.
People can always blame others for faults when they're not looking at themselves. You come across as bitter and nasty tbh - you don't call people hideous pathetic nasty ugly bitches, whether upset, angry or what. That is what is unattractive about you - not your size.

Dawn French is beautiful - in size, looks but also in humour and insight, which I think you are lacking,
\\\Be happy, confident and someone will come along. \\

With your luck Melanie, it will be a fat ugly guy......
///why would a guy choose a girl (who he has once said "She's not a looker but god that is sexy body!") ///


In reply to that, I refer you to my post @ 08:25
Maybe “The ugly pathetic loser of skinny girl” isn’t spitefully minded, but has a personality to match her great body. She doesn’t sound like the loser to me.

Incidentally, I wouldn’t date a fat man. I find obesity repugnant.
"Incidentally, I wouldn’t date a fat man. I find obesity repugnant"

Ill second that.

Well I guess Mel's gone for Breakfast!
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