yes i accept it seems weird and that is why i have apologised but just lately there have been some pranksters (only having fun i am sure ) who have taken the mickey out of people posting questions and then equally posting their own (eg a swedish pop group anagram of bbaa) and in a distrtacted moment i thought it may be a leg pull. So please accept my apology as i have never knowingly offended anyone.
Thanks ever so much for your help. I also felt guilty for saying'weird' but I was in a very bad mood - nothing to do with this site! I'm alright now.
Best wishes, S.