I've not been in your position Emma, but I have been a single mum. In some ways it's really hard, but in others it is so much more rewarding than any other relationship you will ever have. You and your child will have an unbreakable bond for the rest of your lives - something your ex will not have. Men will come and go, but your child is forever and that love is unconditional. Keep remembering that through the hard times and good luck to you and your baby xxx