help! im in trouble.

[Johnny blaze]

"Im suprised at how much room their was in the back of the car"

Nope, didnt have sex but nearly did. However my new girlfriend discovered this email in which the above was said by me to another girl.

I cannot tell my new girl that I even had a girl in the back (regardless of wether or not sex took place) as she thinks men like that are cheap n sleazy, shes the opposite and I would like to keep her.

So help me please.... What could I have been talking about with the quote above? she knows I was in the car with a girl then I write this girl an email saying the above.

What can I tell my new girlfriend I was talking about?

Thanks people.

[steve @ home]

You could tell her you were looking for a place to put your tools away. Or maybe not.

[jno]

sounds a perfectly innocent comment to me - except for someone with a guilty mind

[CheekyChops]

Tell her it was a work colleague who is thinking about buying the same model car as you have and had a look at yours to see what its like / how much room there is. She might fall for it!

[johnlambert]

Johnny,

tell her the truth mate, if she finds out in the future that you lied to her it will be worse, much worse belive me.

Does she think you are a virgin? she must know you have a sexual? past also if she finds out from the other girl............. well you can guess the rest, so come clean mate, it's for the best.

good luck.

[woofgang]

I'm with johnlambert, the truth will out eventually, better if its now and why oh why did you keep the email???

[ecurB0987654]

"why oh why did you keep the email??? "

...and what was this new girl doing poking round your inbox?

[Johnny blaze]

Hi All, thanks so much for all your help thus far, im still looking for that 'killa answer' though.

STEVE@HOME: Thanks for your suggestion; yep maybe not. she already suspects that I was looking for a place to put my 'tools'..of the black and decker varity!.. if you follow. She knows my tools stay at home.

JNO: Thanks mate, however you are forgetting she is a woman. women (some!) seem to think 1 + 1 = 77,247,543 recurring.

CHEEKYCHOPS: Best suggestion so far, only she knows it wasnt a work mate. I like the idea about sizeing up the car but it should be her saying the quote not me so may not work. Will try to vary it slightly, not sure how.

JOHNLAMBERT + WOLFGANG: I trust you but cant tell her the truth. HER ex was caught by HER in the back of HER car with a girl that was not HER. The thought of her new love (me) doing what her ex did is not acceptable by her especially as the email was just one day old before I met her. She calls men like that "sleazy backseat bangers" (the clean version)

That girl has gone back to ozzy land now, if ozzy girl talks I will tell new missus that "shes saying it outta spite, as she still loves me, wants me back, wants 3 kids, and cant handle me being with someone else"

ECURB0987654, basically my PC auto signs in for email since it was just me using it she came over I went out for an hour, she wanted to check her email then BHAM!.. she is a woman after all therefor knows more about me then I do.

[Johnny blaze]

I still NEED a water tight excuse, just to clarify WE DIDNT GET IT ON IN THE BACK - although I would have, but anyway.

She is tall and I am 6ft1" the car was a fiat PUNTO 4 door hence the comment.

We just rubbed our noses together and thats it - my new girl will not believe that I did JUST that so I need something good.

I need that smart alec answer.

[Bohne]

Maybe I'm stupid, but I don't understand the problem.

This message was written before you even met your new girlfriend, therefore it's none of her business, what you were doing where with whom...

And what is she doing snooping around your mail? Apart from the auto-sign-on, did your mails pop open by themselves???

My suggestion: if she has a problem with that mail, that is her problem, not yours! Dump her if necessary and find someone that respects your privacy!

[tell-me-more]

Just keep telling her the truth - that you just rubbed noses. If you keep telling her that it will force her to believe you or call you a liar. If you're telling the truth then it should be noticeable. And for goodness sake, make sure she doesn't see this thread, cos answerbank signs in automatically too.

[Dreaming]

Your girlfriends confidence has been hit, by her finding her ex in the car with someone else. Now she sees the email and thinks, he is just the same! Also how soon was it between the time you and the ex finished, and when you and your present girlfriend got together. For me, I would like to think my boyfriend had spent some time single before he got together with me. Makes you feel a bit more special. Not just like any woman who came along. Be honest with your girlfriend. I dont know why you want to make up some realistic story. When you were telling her the truth all the time. Hope you sort it out.

[gary baldy]

You broke down/ got caught in snowdrift late one night too far from a phone and you had to sleep in the car. Its happened to all of us at some point (probably!)

[MangoPete]

B careful she seems she needs to control you and the situation. Not suprising if she found her other bloke out but did she say that or did he. She could say the same about you to the next bloke.
Despite loving her, if she has this trait of mistrust it may very well destroy your relationship in the future. Been there done that bought the house sold it , moved on.
It was b4 you met
If you have to lie then thta is too weak a foundation to build a relationship on.
However all things considered you could say you were helping said girl move. She had bought something from IKEA etc and couldn't get it home,saw her struggling down the road , bus wouldn't let her on you stopped she said oh it won't fit in that tiny car. MY god a man with such a tiny car he must be hung like Kong...elete that bit.
You said it would fit she says"Im suprised at how much room their was in the back of the car" bcoz it fitted her stuff in.
Reality...it none of your GF business if she has a problem she must deal with it . If she doesn't trust you there will be no future for tyhe relationship any way. Its time to find out if she is prepared to be as commited as you. A relationship doesnt work if only one person loves the other.