Yes, as a caring relative or friend, that's the only thing you can do, isn't it? I'd support the decision made by anyone facing the awful decision, but as aforesaid, I can't understand the reasoning of women who want an abortion to order, simply because the pregnancy was a "mistake" or that it interfered with work, etc. Having said that, it's a decision which rests entirely with the woman concerned, and I'm happy to say that I'll never be in the terrible situation of having to make that choice myself. As when you now look at your niece, I look at my children every day and think how lucky i am that they're there.