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Would you take back a repeatedly unfaithful partner?
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A relationship counsellor's husband made a revelation after 25 year's of marriage � he had been repeatedly unfaithful throughout their marriage. Her husband had even had an 18-month affair with her best friend. However, in the end this woman took back her cheating husband and insists that his ways have changed and that now they have a more open, honest and understanding marriage that is better than ever. What do you think? Could you ever take back a partner who had repeatedly been unfaithful to you?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.no, by cheating not just once but numerous only displays the lack of respect. How can you take someone back and pretend that things are normal? you would keep checking on them and being suspicious if they are late ect.
the minute there is a bad patch off he will go to do it again, sorry but I dont believe that a cheater will change
the minute there is a bad patch off he will go to do it again, sorry but I dont believe that a cheater will change
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I think you never know what goes on behind closed doors and why this couple do in their relationship is their business.
I don't think you can ever say 100% what you would or wouldn't do until you find yourself in that situation. However, I'm quite a proud person so I suspect that I wouldn't. But like I said, who knows? It's not a situation I ever hope to find myself in.
I don't think you can ever say 100% what you would or wouldn't do until you find yourself in that situation. However, I'm quite a proud person so I suspect that I wouldn't. But like I said, who knows? It's not a situation I ever hope to find myself in.
I wouldn't.
But I'm surprised at the answers so far in light of the previous questions, where the majority seem to think nothing of having sex with people they have just met.
If sex is so unimportant that casual sex is the norm - then why get steamed up about this issue?
Sex cannot be so meaningless that it is fine to give it away to strangers, yet so vitally important it would wreck a marriage.
But I'm surprised at the answers so far in light of the previous questions, where the majority seem to think nothing of having sex with people they have just met.
If sex is so unimportant that casual sex is the norm - then why get steamed up about this issue?
Sex cannot be so meaningless that it is fine to give it away to strangers, yet so vitally important it would wreck a marriage.
Personally I have had a lot of one night stands, through choice because I was single and could and always had a rule that if someone was married, engaged, seeing someone etc I left them well alone.
When I'm in a relationship I am totally faithful and if my other half snogged someone else to me that is being unfaithful and that would be it.
When I'm in a relationship I am totally faithful and if my other half snogged someone else to me that is being unfaithful and that would be it.
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I have learned that life is too precious to waste on people you cannot trust. So, no, I would not take a partner back who repeatedly or even once felt the need to be with someone else. I did several times in the past and paid a very heavy price for it. My life has taught me that I can actually be very happy long-term without a partner. It is a different kind of happiness, but it is just as valid.
After choosing to be on my own for 20 years, my Ratter found me and it just felt so right to be with him. I truly love, trust and respect him! But he does know that if I ever felt he were becoming too close to someone else, I would ask him to leave. I believe that if you love your partner, then you will never let anyone else feel they stand a chance of taking liberties with you. If you don't love your partner enough to do that, then don't stay in the relationship! After all, trust that has been broken cannot really be repaired fully. I have found that knowing you are capable of being happy on your own is a wonderful thing. It allows you to be with someone because you truly want to with your whole heart, not because you need to. It gives you the confidence to totally be yourself. This in turn gives your relationship a better chance of success as it is based on honesty, which in turn breeds trust. It is silly little slip-ups that can lead to people outside of a relationship mistakingly thinking they can take liberties. But if two people really love each other, both partners will make every effort to ensure that a wrong impression doesn't endanger a wonderful life together.
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After choosing to be on my own for 20 years, my Ratter found me and it just felt so right to be with him. I truly love, trust and respect him! But he does know that if I ever felt he were becoming too close to someone else, I would ask him to leave. I believe that if you love your partner, then you will never let anyone else feel they stand a chance of taking liberties with you. If you don't love your partner enough to do that, then don't stay in the relationship! After all, trust that has been broken cannot really be repaired fully. I have found that knowing you are capable of being happy on your own is a wonderful thing. It allows you to be with someone because you truly want to with your whole heart, not because you need to. It gives you the confidence to totally be yourself. This in turn gives your relationship a better chance of success as it is based on honesty, which in turn breeds trust. It is silly little slip-ups that can lead to people outside of a relationship mistakingly thinking they can take liberties. But if two people really love each other, both partners will make every effort to ensure that a wrong impression doesn't endanger a wonderful life together.
End of sermon! LOL :o)
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