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legend758duo | 00:14 Fri 26th Oct 2007 | ChatterBank
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asked aall over the place .
but still as relevant today as ever .
every day that goes by i think someone falls in love wwith someone they either shouldnt or wouldnt normally.
why do they do it ?

maybe its part of being human that they have failings.
we all like to think we are perfect.

though in reality we are neither perfect or infalable.

so have you?
no need for details if youre shy.

yes or no is sufficient to get a spectrum of opinions. : - )
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i have .
and i know a few others that have too.
i know they say you cant choose who you fall inlove wth.

but sometimes you know its wrong and you just carry on .

why?

well perhaps thats our humanity showing?
or maybe were just selfish?
Opposites attract? maybe thats it.
It's half the fun of being human...

Spice of life or whatever you call it....boring being the same...
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but isnt it the case that some folk just go from one relationship to the next never knowing what they wany?

is that really fair on a prospective partner if theyre just gonna do the same old thing ?
That's very true...but do you always tar someone with the same brush? Who knows if anything will be the same?

I'm sure there's plenty of folk who've gone on and done the same mistakes with the next partner...but there's as many that's learned mistakes and go on to lead happy lives too...

There's no black and white...sorry...it'd be nice to think on it like that but people and life ain't that simple...but that's only my opinion...
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many are different .
ive met quite a few in my personal life.

but others are predestined top repeat into infinity the same mistakes.

gladly not something i am or would do.

i respect not only myself but others too much to do something on a whim or a rebound .

spice of life is a good analogy.
although how much spice is enough

and how much is too much?

i like to think folk learn from their mistakes and dont take them thru life with them like so much excess baggage.

but then i also have seen folk lurching from one relationship to the other, besotted in love ready for marraige.

only to have a sudden change of heart and decide it was a mistake.

those same people less than a year later back on the love trail ready for more kids and marraige.

the result ?

a variety pack of kids to different dads and a photo album full of lost loves.

but as i said at the start we are neither perfect or infallible.
some though are less perfect than others .


but do any of us ever really learn ??

Well I suppose that's true to an extent....don't you think that sometimes it's much more simple than that though? Different things can conspire against us? Age and attitude....

Some people aren't meant to be together...simple as that...

You know...somtimes...folk....just think too much...

People change...people don't....I've never rushed into a relationship....I always find that there's more than one person who can be hurt whether directly or not. That's never been in my intention.....easy to do....so you try not to.
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some folk cant help themselves though.
ive heard of strange things .

makes me very suspicious of folk .

i heard of one woman left her hubby and kids for someone else .
travelled to another country.
for someone shed fallen for online.
6 months later.
back home .

now her husbands the one having the suspicions and doubts.
when do they stop?

never knowing if she will drop everything again?


like when you hear of folk having affairs.
jhesus if they messed around with you " because the spark was gone.because we werent really matched.because we didnt talk anymore"
what do you think theyll do when the spark goes etc with you?

if theyll do it wae you.
theyll dae it tae you.

and thats rarely wrong.

perhaps people like this are the ones we should avoid , if we dont wanna take a chance in romance?
Well I suppose that is true to an extent. I've never been a cheat myself so I don't know.
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me too.

ever been cheated on or betrayed?
i think its better to let sleeping dogs lie.


Did I just go mental or did all the replies to mine disappear? LMFOA? eh?
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