Not a happy bunny

[supersuezy24]

...My boyfriend broke up with me nearly 2 weeks ago and it's not getting any easier.....as I type this I don't really now why im typing this just a bit all over the place feelin so lonely and find myself coming here to distract myself..don' t know what to do.

[yogi-bear]

Can you ride tandem? :0)

[ummmm]

Did he tell you why?

It could be a blessing in disguise....

[bobjugs12]

Hey supersuzy, how long were you with him and how serious was it?

[supersuezy24]

Clearly not so super is right haha, how ya mean can i ride tandem..

Said he needed some space..we'd been very much in each others company constantly which i see now wasn't good..thing is we both still love each other..I just want another chance.. Was serious enough yeah..

[bobjugs12]

If you both still love each other then give him some time to square his feelings away, then suggest you try again. This time ensure you both have plenty of space, make sure you have time alone with your mates and the same with him, and make sure yo don't slip into old habits.
Good luck

[ummmm]

Don't beg.....move on. Do you really want to be with someone who 'wants space'? That's a load of bull....

[ummmm]

Bob....it's a nice way to dump someone.

[supersuezy24]

Thanks bobjugs12..I desperately wanna try again.. everything just seems so crap withour him :(

[supersuezy24]

Ummm..i dunno..i believe him when he says he still loves me...he's not an a-hole..

[4getmenot]

I agree, dont beg. Dont text or call him, if after a week he hasnt rang get over him and move on, you will know then he doesnt want the same. If within the next week he calls he must care but keep it cool. I also agree spending every minute togather doesnt help at all. you find that you end up turning to websites like this because you've deserted all the friends you did have lol

[ummmm]

Sorry super....you don't dump someone you love because you 'need space' you tell them you need space....and you tell them why.

That's what grown ups do...

[bobjugs12]

ummm, some people do mean it though. I've said it in the past and meant it, things had gone well to fast and despite talkinhg about it nothing changed so i ended it. A few weeks later we tried again and I ended up married to her

[ummmm]

And? What happened next?

[B00]

What is wrong with today's ladies? Get a backbone woman! Go out, enjoy time with your friends or whatever! Stop bloody moping after a fella who obviously doesn't want to be with you.

Still loves you? Yeah sure he does- why he dumped you.

Harsh maybe, but more than likely correct. You do need to go out and start doing the things you used to do before you met him.

And all harshness aside, i do wish you luck :-)

[ummmm]

She says it nicer than me...!!!!!

[supersuezy24]

I understand where you're coming from Umm..he was afraid we'd slip back into the same routine..hes stubborn like

[supersuezy24]

Sorry I didnt intend to annoy anyone..just upset..sorry