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living together and seperated with a girlfriend

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imortallyone | 22:53 Mon 20th Apr 2009 | ChatterBank
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My boyfriend had split from a horrible marriage about 8 months ago. One in which went on and off due to her cheating and the at each others throats fighting.
The women now wants to leave her boyfriend(that she just had a baby with) and wants my boyfriend to move back in. She claims she cant do it alone and it would be better for the 2 boys they share. I dont see how she cant service...he gives her $350 a week for 2 kids plus she gets money for her 2 other kids from their father,and she can work.
She has tried to play good cop bad cop with our relationship. Trying to help us and then trying to split us. I dont trust her.
I honestly feel like I will have to walk away from him and those boys I love if he moves back into that house. Am I wrong for not trying if he does? Is this something that is really better for the kids? they have already been adjusting to dad having his own place and knows me and my children.
I just dont see how this will help anyone but her. Am I being selfish? I don't know what to do....
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good luck.
UK or USA ($350)? If US, try an American site as this site is British.
...this site is full of Brits...and some really thick one's at that...
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No, you're definitely not being selfish. It's an extemely difficult position you find yourself in, but nobody apart you knows whether he's worth it.

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