it isant about her its about keeping control of you i have the same proberlem i have arranged a contact center now so he can be monitored now all this is in place we have heard nothing all of his short comings will one day turn around and haunt him not every father is great and not every father wants to be one when the baby arrives she will work it out and when he comes out with the lies you will be able to prove you done everything to suport your daughter it may break your heart have a word with your doctor they will know of these places you dont have to go yourself my daughter is entitled to a solictor under the child protection act so it will not cost you so it will not be a financial worrie and you will know your daughter is protected goodluck