person centered approach

[Cwpsi]

i have a job interview on thursday, i need to know about pca.
i have some background info about it, but i will be taking part in role plays and don't have the correct phrases to use when i will be playing the part of counsellor.
phrases like
"it sounds like..."
can anyone help me please???

[roxygirl66]

Hi, for a pca you need to focus on the client rather than offering your opinion. The idea is for them to draw their own conclusion without feeling it has been influenced by someone else.

Use phrases like; how does that make you feel?, and; how would things be ideally in your situation? to find out their thoughts and feelings on what they feel is wrong and to get an idea on what they could do to make the situation better. Reflect back what they have said to you so they can see if you have understood them.

A counsellor empathises with the person so try and put yourself in their shoes and ask appropriate questions to help them elaborate on what they are trying to tell you. Don't use accusing questions like Why? or What for? and if you get stuck for something to say, don't see it as an awkward silence - moments for thought and reflection are important for both parties, and commonplace in a counselling situation.

Hope this helps, and good luck!

[pinktwink]

you also need to know about reflective listening which reflects back to the client a summary of their views indicating you are listening.

You need to have unconditional positive regard for the client whereby you accept the client fully as an individual and respect them . This can pose difficulties and is not always as easy as it seems especially if you have a client who is a child abuser..

You need to be aware of being congruent whereby you are honest to yourself and the client in that what you say reflects what you believe and value.

Have alook at the works of carl rogers for quick tips

[Cwpsi]

Thanks for your help!!!

[Rosetta]

As has been said ask open questions. Sometimes asking for examples or "could you tell me more about" can help people explain how they feel. Summarise what they say and check out that you have it right.

body language is also important, you should appear relaxed but not slouch. Unless you have no other choice dont sit behind a desk as this makes a barrier.

Dont worry too much about the words that you use, if you are being yourself that will come over well. Try to avoid jargon though.

Good luck, just relax and try and make the person you are talking too feel valued and repected

[Dollie]

don't forget REG - Respect, Empathy, Genuineness - the absolute essential 'core conditions' when working PC. Good Luck.

[Cwpsi]

Just to let you know, I got the job!! Thanks for you're help!!