Why Would Someone Un-Block You On Facebook?

[Andrea8585]

I got blocked by my ex on Facebook because I kept talking to her after we split. She ended things with me after 3 months because her ex was still on her mind. She blocked me to basically say go away and stop contacting me, no other reason than that. I found it harsh considering I was very supportive of her after she lead me on and forgave her instantly. I only maintained contact with her to say Hi and catch up once a week if that. I could understand if it was every day and I was bombarding her.

I was only blocked for just under 2 months then noticed she went and unblocked me. Why would she un-block me yet not speak to me or add me again?

I have been blocked by exes in the past and have stayed blocked for years and still haven't been unblocked. I did end those relationships though.

So why not keep me blocked? Why even think about me to unblock me.

[Prudie]

Maybe she's calmed down and decided not to be so petty, whatever I wouldn't read much into it.

[Zacs-Master]

She's keeping tabs on you.

[wolf63]

Or she may have unblocked you in in error. I would wait to see if she makes contact, if not don't do anything.

[daffy654]

Why are you checking to see if you are blocked or not ?

[DJHawkes]

what do you have to do to people to get so many of them blocking you? Can't you actually talk to a person in the flesh rather than carrying on an online fued that ends a relationship for good? They are not friends if they think blocking you from contacting them online is a solution. It's not a relationship either.

[pusskin]

How do you block people Andrea? May come in handy for me any day soon.

[Andrea8585]

She came up in suggested friends that is how I know I got un-blocked. Facebook takes blocking seriously so Facebook wouldn't have unblocked me automatically as it is a breach of privacy.

As for why I have been blocked. I must date some immature girls !! I guess people block so they don't see your profile and get hurt when you move on??? I don't do anything to warrant a block though.

I guess as someone has said its to probably spy and because it was petty to block me in the first place!

[DJHawkes]

lol so they block you to save themselves from further heartache? righto, lol I know you seem to be taking it seriously, but seriously, does that not read a little bit egotistical ?

[bednobs]

"facebook take blocking seriously" lol and so do some people. Far too seriously. Just move on with life. She is your ex for a reason

[Andrea8585]

It sounds egotistical but people do it. lol! Why else block an ex after they left you.

Anyway.... I know she is an ex but we didn't date long and we were good friends. Id like to maintain a friendship with her. I took her unblocking as a sign she doesn't hate me so...maybe in the future who knows :)

[bednobs]

i don't, and never have got all this "we can still be friends" stuff. It always means to me that one party wants the relationship to start again

[mccfluff]

She could well of re-installed fb on something amd doesnt know shes unblocked you. Leave it alone

[boxtops]

Agree - just leave it, stop dwelling on the past and move on.

[craft1948]

How weird, the OP is now 'user inactive'................

[society]

You sound stalkerish.

[mccfluff]

Crafty - I saw the jack reacher film....

[craft1948]

Did you like it fluff?

I refuse to contemplate the vertically challenged Cruise as the 6'5" Reacher.

[mccfluff]

As long as you've never read the books and have no idea of the physical descrip of him, he does a good enough job but imo its a typical tom cruise film. Fine to while away acouple of hours but thats about it.

But if yr a fan..... you might just shout at the tv a lot...