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Shall i keep the baby?
I really dont no what too do. I am 9 weeks pregnant. I am 28 yrs old. 2 1/2 months ago i had a bad accident and broke 18 bones, nearly all have healed apart from my pelvis which is taking its time.
The father is a complete waste of space and doesn't want to no. He has messed me about from day one. I cant help but love him though. We only meet 3 months ago.
I dont no if i'm ready to be a single mum. I'm still at home with my parents and have no job because of the accident.
I keep changing my mind and cant stick to a final decision. It would be difffernt of the father was a decent guy and gave me some support.
I have an appointment next monday for a consultation at the abortion clinic. I really don't no what too do and dont want to regret my decision. I know, no matter what i decide it's going to be really hard. what shall i do?????
The father is a complete waste of space and doesn't want to no. He has messed me about from day one. I cant help but love him though. We only meet 3 months ago.
I dont no if i'm ready to be a single mum. I'm still at home with my parents and have no job because of the accident.
I keep changing my mind and cant stick to a final decision. It would be difffernt of the father was a decent guy and gave me some support.
I have an appointment next monday for a consultation at the abortion clinic. I really don't no what too do and dont want to regret my decision. I know, no matter what i decide it's going to be really hard. what shall i do?????
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and you think that someone here will be able to make your decision? It doesnt work that way Im afraid.
You need to talk it through with someone who knows you, a close friend, family member or partner.
Speak to the consultant or whoever is treating you still for your injuries, your pelvis may not support a pregnancy (and god knows how you managed to fall pregnant straight after such a bad accident)
You need to talk it through with someone who knows you, a close friend, family member or partner.
Speak to the consultant or whoever is treating you still for your injuries, your pelvis may not support a pregnancy (and god knows how you managed to fall pregnant straight after such a bad accident)
You have to be very very honest witrh yourself.
Can you offer this baby a decent life, feed clothe and house her until she is eighteen, including the emotional and physical support she will need?
If not, and your circumstances indicate that this will be difficult - then you should consider your options.
It's a shame that this baby was not conceived as part of a relationship - and despite you saying you love the father, he obviously fails to feel the same way about you.
You can consider adoption as another option, but i would suggest you speak to your GP who will refer you for some specialist counselling from people who can help you make this very very difficult choice.
Can you offer this baby a decent life, feed clothe and house her until she is eighteen, including the emotional and physical support she will need?
If not, and your circumstances indicate that this will be difficult - then you should consider your options.
It's a shame that this baby was not conceived as part of a relationship - and despite you saying you love the father, he obviously fails to feel the same way about you.
You can consider adoption as another option, but i would suggest you speak to your GP who will refer you for some specialist counselling from people who can help you make this very very difficult choice.
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