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To grieve for something that hasn't happened yet?
It all comes from a chat I had with my partners mum this morning and it hit home that I will have to move out at some point but the thought of leaving my dad breaks my heart
I can't stop crying and I don't know why I am. I've had a really good weekend and everything.
It all comes from a chat I had with my partners mum this morning and it hit home that I will have to move out at some point but the thought of leaving my dad breaks my heart
I can't stop crying and I don't know why I am. I've had a really good weekend and everything.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I'd love to Daisy I think I'm just too independently and caringly minded to do so. But I see where you and Mamya are coming from.
I've never told dad this Mamya - don't think I've told anyone. When I'm not with dad I worry. If he's late home and hasn't called I call the office. I worry so much about him. I was always a daddy's girl until I was about 16/17 and he got the job at the airport. He had - how I felt - little or no time for me because he always 'had work' he was home a lot with mum and I'd lash out so much. I've apologised about that and he knows how I felt and I can't put myself through that again.
I think my hormones are playing a small role here too which makes me feel ten times worse than I do.
I've never told dad this Mamya - don't think I've told anyone. When I'm not with dad I worry. If he's late home and hasn't called I call the office. I worry so much about him. I was always a daddy's girl until I was about 16/17 and he got the job at the airport. He had - how I felt - little or no time for me because he always 'had work' he was home a lot with mum and I'd lash out so much. I've apologised about that and he knows how I felt and I can't put myself through that again.
I think my hormones are playing a small role here too which makes me feel ten times worse than I do.
My dad died when I was in my twenties too. Queenie your dad would like you to go on with your life etc. And he is still quite young enough to meet somebody if he's that way inclined.
My mum who was so funny after my dad died told brother and I - "the lemonade man is coming round to you to ask permission to marry me. Brother said - Tell the lemonade man - "we will pay him to marry you".
My mum who was so funny after my dad died told brother and I - "the lemonade man is coming round to you to ask permission to marry me. Brother said - Tell the lemonade man - "we will pay him to marry you".
My brother died at 75 years old and believe it or not - he had 2 women dangling on a string. (he was a true bachelor) but these 2 ladies thought he was the bees knees and thought that he was never unfaithful to them. Ah hahha - I could write a book about the ladies he went out with behind their backs and I had big rows with him knowing this - I didn't agree. So there episodes where I had to tee tee tee one woman and pretend everything was ok - and had to do the same with the last one - exact same. But you know what brother didn't give a figs. Cos the two were back with him within a short time. Unbelievable.
Sorry Queenie - you don't need this but if you are going to move into your pad with your partner - then you need to let dad know he has freedom to meet a nice lady.
Sorry Queenie - you don't need this but if you are going to move into your pad with your partner - then you need to let dad know he has freedom to meet a nice lady.
I'm sorry if I have upset you Mamya that was never my intention.
Even if I came round to the idea - he isn't the sort of man that would go looking for a relationship. He's happy doing his own thing..always has.
Mum was I feel the only person he loved and wanted to be with. We did actually discuss it after mum passed and while I said I wouldn't or couldn't tolerate another woman - probably because I don't want another mum so to speak...and I wouldn't actively stop him - he said he didn't want to be with anyone else.
It may be wrong but me and my father are very alike - just like mum and I. I guess we both feel we can't see him with anyone else other than mum.
Even if I came round to the idea - he isn't the sort of man that would go looking for a relationship. He's happy doing his own thing..always has.
Mum was I feel the only person he loved and wanted to be with. We did actually discuss it after mum passed and while I said I wouldn't or couldn't tolerate another woman - probably because I don't want another mum so to speak...and I wouldn't actively stop him - he said he didn't want to be with anyone else.
It may be wrong but me and my father are very alike - just like mum and I. I guess we both feel we can't see him with anyone else other than mum.