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What could you NOT forgive?
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After my post lastnight, and reading another AB'ers post in FAMILY, what would you be unable to forgive your other half/partner for? Cheating?Stealing? Lying?........... or something else.
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Voting Tory or supporting Sunderland. Everything else could be negotiated.. .
16:37 Mon 19th Mar 2012
Child abuse, badly hurting or killing someone, rape, beyond that it would depend if they were truly sorry and I cared enough to try to talk it through and make changes
But forgiving them doesn't mean I'd continue on a personal relationship with them... would be a lot easier for them to destroy that even though i might forgive them..
But forgiving them doesn't mean I'd continue on a personal relationship with them... would be a lot easier for them to destroy that even though i might forgive them..
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Forgiving someone doesn't mean trying to get back to where you were...where you were may have been part of the problem... where you go next is more significant. Things will never be the same...sometimes though they can change for the better if it is the shake up that stops you taking each other for granted...
And if you both hadn't been physical for months, or even years, ummmm - each situation is different. While generically you are correct, I think that there is more room in this one for "give" than say the abuse ones (def no no to both physical and mental abuse).
As to Smowball's comment, a lot of us haven't experienced the gamut of situations that you mention. Thank Goodness. I have experienced the cheating side - and we worked it through - for a while. It contributed to the divorce but that was for other reasons mainly.
As to Smowball's comment, a lot of us haven't experienced the gamut of situations that you mention. Thank Goodness. I have experienced the cheating side - and we worked it through - for a while. It contributed to the divorce but that was for other reasons mainly.