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Harshitha | 04:51 Tue 03rd Apr 2018 | Family & Relationships

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My dad is visiting his parents' and he wants me to go with him. But I hate going because I can't leave my mom alone and my mom also hates meeting my grandparents. Besides their house is very small. I dont want to go not because I hate my grandparents or something but I just hate visiting the village. I want to say I dont want to go but I am sure my dad will try to persuade me, by saying my grandparents want to see me. How can I let him down easy?

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Harshitha

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I'm sorry it's very personal...

waterboatman

I thought it might be. Tell your dad that.

Harshitha

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Also going there means reminding myself of that incident which I'm trying to forget and to come out of depression. It was actually not little, it was huge.
Actually I didn't even want to discuss this stuff, but I am trying to be as clear as possible.

waterboatman

I appreciate that Harshitha. Does your dad know about it? If not you must tell him.

fiction-factory

So are you not able to confide in your father? In the long run it may be better for you to do this rather than having to bottle up your bad memories and forever make excuses for not visiting. If your father doesn't know the real reason I can see hwy he would be upset that you won't visit his parents- he wants to show you off and/or thinks they want to see you

jno

Just tell him you want to be with your mother, as you’ve said here.

fiction-factory

https://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Question1600570.html
I am not sure this is the answer as the issue will probably arise again and continue to trouble you

waterboatman

I think I can guess what the incident is. It's a genuine reason for not wanting to go. Explain it to your dad, hard as that may be, and that you want to stay with your mum.

waterboatman

As ff says, it won't go away. So I advise you to tell your dad.

Harshitha

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Dear ff, I'm sure this wouldn't arise again at least for a year.

waterboatman

It's a genuine reason for not wanting to go. Explain it to your dad. I'm sure he will support you. I know if you were my daughter I would want to know, to understand your reluctance, and to give you all the help and care I could.