My Husbands Penis Is Too Big To The Point Where It's Actually Quite Uncomfortable Sometimes When We Have Sex, What Can I Do To Make Sex Less Painful On My Part?

[ShilohJane]

His penis is quite wide and long and I know it's said "bigger is better" but that's not necessarily the case haha cause I'm quite a petite person at 5'2" which doesn't make it any easier! We've been together for 5 years now and I initially thought I'd get used to it, Don't get me wrong I love him to death and sex is extremely enjoyable a lot of the time but there are still times when I end up feeling super sore and I'm unable to walk properly for up to 2 days! Any suggestions on what to do?

[ChillDoubt]

I'm a lesbian......trapped in a mans body.

[yogi-bear]

LOL... I was never confused as a child, DT

.....OK, perhaps only JUST when I had a crush on The Chuckle Brothers! :0)

[Baby_Sham]

I can't say I've ever been in a... er... position to need such 'discipline'.
Maybe I'm just greedy though :P

[Baby_Sham]

Yogi, Barry or Paul? :P

[joggerjayne]

Surely Barry and Paul were the Bee Gees.

[Baby_Sham]

Hahahaha :D

[andy-hughes]

OK, if intercourse is hurting you, it is NOT because your husband's penis is too big - your vagina is soon going to expand enough to allow a baby to pass through, so it's not likely to draw the line at a penis, no matter how big it feels or looks.

Basically, you are not 'ready' for him when intercourse starts.

You need LOTS of foreplay, and you need to be very relaxed and lubricated.

Ask him to go very slowly and gently, and guide him about what is comfortable for you. If he heading into you like a battering ram at the doors of a castle, then no wonder it hurts!

Make sure you take charge, and make sure he listens to you.

With some loving guidance, and co-operation, you will be able to enjoy intercourse again - but tell him to take it nice and slow.

[DTCwordfan]

See it's always the man's fault - not enough preparation (or is that jelly?)

[cupid04]

ky?

[ferlew]

Spoken like a true gentleman, Andy Hughes.

[ShilohJane]

Thank you Andy-Hughes for the wonderful advice, I appreciate it.

[gness]

Shi....this has been a lovely thread...Can you post your next one in CB so we can really enter into the spirit....x

[Baby_Sham]

Andy as 'best answer', by far :)

[tonyav]

Royal, cupes !.

[yogi-bear]

Me.......A Bee Gee?.......errrrrrr nope but............

I'll admit I do get a sense of the Heebee Geebee's when I imagine having downright nasty sex with Jimmy Krankie!


:0)

[andy-hughes]

You are welcome Shiloh Jane - every good wish to both of you with your new baby.

[Baby_Sham]

Awww Andy. What a gent :)

[yogi-bear]

Andy H is quite right, SJ.......you will expand after your little baby is born
( Congratus btw )
.......Mrs Bear has had my four children ( All mine ) and when I'm downstairs in the throws of passion, and whisper sweet nothing's, she always asks me " Why'd you say it twice?"....I said "I only said it once!" :0).........yooooodelllllaaaydheheee

[Caribeing]

Thought I had logged on to some tabloid sex column instead of AB too personal for this forum.

[ferlew]

Flipping heck Carib, we ALL do it FGS.