Was I being controlling ?

[Hanz-x3]

Ok my boyfriend and I have been together 7 months. I got a little jelous one time because he had a ex girlfriend who he claimed to 'hate' still on his facebook friends list so one day we sat and talked about deleting people of our facebook. He also said he didn't like me having random guys.

Anyway, today I saw he still had this other girl on there who looks like a tramp who he used to be friends with ages ago and hasn't spoken to for years. I kinda bad mouthed her in front of him and he stuck up for her saying don't be nasty, she's a nice girl, how would you feel if I bad mouthed someone you liked.. then I was like why do you still have her on there and he was like because she's a nice girl. Then, I told him to delete her and he did. Now I feel really bad, like I lost my control. What should I do?

[jackthehat]

Grow up.......would be a start.
Is he never to interact with *any* other female 'ever again' unless you approve of her first?

He's with you.....you either need to trust him or walk away.....but I would suggest that whatever you decide to do, the problem you need to address lies with you.

[redcrx]

apologise for being so jealous and forcing him to change who he is friends with.

then accept that you cant dictate who he can and cant speak to when there is no reason behind your jealousy.

[Sqad]

////What should I do?////

Nothing....you have said your piece and he has acquiesced.

Job well done.

[NOX]

You would have been utter history if you were my girlfriend, there is nothing as unattractive a someone whose posessive, cloying and demanding. I have lots of female platonic friends and have never once had to justify that to anyone - nor would I- so I'd apologise if I were you.

[joko]

i echo what jack and nox have said...grow up ... also you must apologise and admit that you just got a bit moody and reacted badly.

if this is just who you are then you need to work on it...you cannot control people and trying to is a sure fire way to get surely fired...

[Sqad]

You have nothing to apologise for..... jealousy can be a debilitating emotion that can gnaw away beneath the surface make the quality of your life and relationship agony.

Some people are not jealous and cant understand people who have this jealous streak which they cannot help ...it is a sign of insecurity.

You assessed the situation made a decision, rightly or wrongly so stick by it.

You have NOTHING to apologise for.

[daftgrandad]

Are you aka Vicki Pollard like ?

[sandyRoe]

Indubitably.