Someone being treated badly

[keys]

What should you do then someone is being treated badly and they aren't see it.

[B00]

Can you rephrase this post? I don't understand it, sorry.

[ummmm]

How old? And how are they being treated badly?

[ummmm]

It's not that hard to understand BOO!!

[cazzz1975]

who is treating them badly?

[B00]

well bully for you ummm, you understood it, I didn't, is that ok with you? I aksed politely for the OP to re-phrase the question, and if its ok with you, i'd still like them to expand on it.

[Old_Geezer]

Well it isn't that easy to understand either. "they aren't see it" ?

[andy-hughes]

You will need to offer some more detail for an informed response please keys.

is this an adult or child? Friend or family member?

Look forward to your next post with some info.

[ummmm]

Why are you talking to me like that BOO? The OP has made two basic typos...you're intelligent enough to figure that out...surely?

[keys]

What should you do then someone (mate) is being treated badly and they can't see it. She is in her late 20's by her husband.

[ummmm]

TBH keys...there isn't much you can do about it. She's a grown up. If she talks to you about it then take the opportunity to give your opinion.

Some people don't want to see it....but deep down she probably can. If you keep telling her though, you'll just be putting pressure on her...which could make her feel worse.

[B00]

When you say badly, in what way? Have oyu spoken ot her about it? What does she say?

ummmm, i said i didn't understand the question, and you told me it wasn't hard to understand followed by the exclamation marks, which said to me I was being a cow for even asking the OP what they meant. Apologies if that's not what you meant at all.

Trim- Dunno how to reply to that. Perhaps its for another topic or even FB? If im that horrible you could always email the Ed as well, sorry if you think that of me by the way :-)

[keys]

does not appreciate her and verbally abusive

[Old_Geezer]

You can point out your concern, once, and then it is up to them, not you.

But there again in what way are they being treated badly ? Are they being hit ? Is their partner having an affair ? Are they being controlled. Depending on the actual concern sometimes it is better to stay out of it altogether.

[Old_Geezer]

So she will already be aware, I'm sure they will know. Again I say you may voice an opinion once, but it is their deccision what they wish to tolerate.

[B00]

If she's in love, here's nothing you can say to her which will make her see it for herself. All you can do is be there to pick up the pieces when (if?) if goes pear shaped.

[keys]

Being controlled and bullied. Thank you for all your answers.