ChatterBank0 min ago
Gay child?
I found my 6 yr old boy naked lying ontop of one of his friends "simulating" what appeared to be gay sex..... Do you think this is strange, i'm not sure what to think, perhaps I should try and entertain him with more butch activities like cleaving meat or listing to some hard rock?
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You are making a joke, right? If so, I've got to say that there is something fundamentally wrong with you for thinking of kids like that.
If not, and you ARE serious, I'm sorry. My advise would be to not encourage, but don't overly discourage. My thoughts on activities to do, rather than your ludicrous suggestions, would be football, paintballing and perhaps racing car computer games.
On the whole though, I think you're an idiot.
If not, and you ARE serious, I'm sorry. My advise would be to not encourage, but don't overly discourage. My thoughts on activities to do, rather than your ludicrous suggestions, would be football, paintballing and perhaps racing car computer games.
On the whole though, I think you're an idiot.
Why not talk about it in a way he will understand. To try and understand why he is doing it. Their could be a more sinister reason to what he is doing.
I dont mean to scare you but is there a chance he has seen anyone else doing it or maybe it could be being done to him. Communication is the key in this situation.
I dont mean to scare you but is there a chance he has seen anyone else doing it or maybe it could be being done to him. Communication is the key in this situation.
You also need to consider the reaction of the other childs parents, If your son is demonstrating a sexual preference there's nothing to worry about and you shouldn't try to change him.
However, simulating a sexual act with another child could be damaging to both your family and the other childs family.
When inapproriate acts like this take place issues of sexual abuse are raised - and I'm not suggesting for one moment that your son is being sexually abused by anyone but being able to see either adults having sex or tv / films that contain scenes that are inappropriate for the child's age / stage of development are considered a form of abuse.
Think of it this way - your son is 6 years old, he's been to stay with a friend and until now has never brought up anything sexually related... suddenly he's able to show you how to have sex.. how would you feel? what thoughts would be runing through your head?
As I said earlier, there's nothing wrong with sexual preference but alarm bells could be raised if he does this in school, at a friends house or if the other child's parents wish to take it further.
you need to find a way to talk to your son about his behaviour towards others.
However, simulating a sexual act with another child could be damaging to both your family and the other childs family.
When inapproriate acts like this take place issues of sexual abuse are raised - and I'm not suggesting for one moment that your son is being sexually abused by anyone but being able to see either adults having sex or tv / films that contain scenes that are inappropriate for the child's age / stage of development are considered a form of abuse.
Think of it this way - your son is 6 years old, he's been to stay with a friend and until now has never brought up anything sexually related... suddenly he's able to show you how to have sex.. how would you feel? what thoughts would be runing through your head?
As I said earlier, there's nothing wrong with sexual preference but alarm bells could be raised if he does this in school, at a friends house or if the other child's parents wish to take it further.
you need to find a way to talk to your son about his behaviour towards others.
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