Why do people think i'm gay?

[relfy]

Can someone tell me why people think i'm gay, despite me telling them i am definitely straight! No one seems to believe it! I can even swear on my life to them and they won't believe it! Can someone help please?

[whiffey]

You must have some sort of clue ? Do you wear pink shirts for example ?

[3ightball]

Do you have a boyfriend or sleep with men?

[relfy]

whiffey - no
3ightball - NO!!!!

[4getmenot]

are you a member of gaylife magazine?

[monkeyeyes]

Well, if you are a woman, Relfy, your previous answers to 3ightball s questions could be a clue !! :o)

[saxy_jag]

Are you homophobic?

[whiffey]

There must be some aspect of your demeanour that is in some way seen as gay, or as it is sometimes called 'being in touch with your female bits'

Do you giggle, or blush frequently ?

You need to be seen around with a nice bit of tottie like Cat Deeley, that'll shut people up.

[kujawski]

do you own a collection of latex/rubber bums?

[relfy]

4getmenot - NO

monkeyeyes - i'm a man not a woman!

saxy_jag - nope

[relfy]

whiffey - well i do laugh quite a lot yeah. i'm too ugly to get a girlfriend though. :(

kujawski - no

[kujawski]

do you wink at blokes, and generally act gay?

[relfy]

RubberBumBum - no

3ight8ball - no

[whiffey]

Maybe you could hire a bit of rough to be seen with occasionally, wear gloves close up though.

[sir.prize]

Is being gay really a BIG problem for a 15-year-old, relfy?

[whiffey]

sir.prize raises a good point - does it actually matter what people think ?

[relfy]

kujawski - NO!

whiffey - yeah but no girls really like me

sir.prize - yes it is, because everyone calls me gay and when i tell them i'm straight, they just say, "no, we know you're gay, just admit it." and then i'm like "but i'm straight i'm telling you!"

[relfy]

whiffey - yes, i hate people calling me gay when i know inside i'm straight!

[june1977]

Don't say you're too ugly to get a girlfriend, not all women are that shallow, all you need is confidence. Maybe you do have feminine qualities that you're just not aware of and that makes people think that maybe you're gay. Just be comfortable with your sexuality and don't worry what others think - as long as your honest with yourself.