My lady will not snog with me.

[Ian1]

I've been going out with this lady I met on a dating site. We've been going out for 4 months and really getting on well, even planning to marry one day.

However she will not snog with me, saying she can't stand tongues touching.

Surely, anyone could snog the person they are in love with?

This is one of her many foibles, she will not share a bottle of water.

This is doing my head in.

[Jemisa]

You're thinking of marrying this lady? Perhaps there's other things on the banned list too. I think you had better find these things out before the day.

You can have really good snogging sessions with just lips its not necessary to use tongue's, there's things one can do too, touching, feeling, squeezing....
If its all done with tenderness and care it can be very arousing. Enjoy.

jem

[sandyRoe]

Horatio Bottomley? Has his name went into slang for rimmin?

[tastymorsel]

Thats what I was trying to say Jem.Thank you

[bednobs]

i hate hate hate kissing and would never do it if i had my way.

[joeluke]

Your woman won't snog you?

Find one who will then

[Prudentia]

I know how you feel joe, she won't snog with me either!!!

[mike11111]

>my feeelthy mind imagining you meant 'horatio' !<

I'll never feel quite the same again about Lord Nelson

[joeluke]

If the OP's woman refuses to share tongues or even a bottle of water with him perhaps he's likely to hear the following statement:

"and you can keep that thing away from me too"

[nosmoking]

dont want to sound rude but are you getting your leg over?if not find someone else.

[Barmaid]

She simply may not like it!

I think that what you need to do is talk to her about how you feel and more importantly LISTEN to how she feels. If this relationship is going to go anywhere, you need to learn to talk.

[boxtops]

Is it something to do with oral hygiene? If you don't taste good, that's very off-putting. I know some people who won't share cups or drinking bottles too - very picky from the hygiene point of view. I must admit that I don't find tongues particularly attractive, there are plenty of other ways of showing your love - spit is not the most ardour-making of products.

[B00]

I'd seriously re-think marrying someone who dislikes doing something you obviously do like doing.

And another thing- thinking of marrying someone after only 4 months together? Seriously?

[jno]

she doesn't want to do something you want to do. If she does it you'll know she's not enjoying it.

You can't change someone else's behaviour, only your own.

Your call. Is this a relationship breaker or isn't it? Does what you get from her make up for what you don't get from her?

Tough decision but only you can make it.

[jno]

ah, what B00 just said. You always get good sense from B00.

[B00]

You on the sauce jno? Me? Sense? ;-)

But yes, I'd like to reitterate. I'd make it a loooooooooooooooong engagement if i were you. Four months really isn't that long being together, especially when there's cracks already showing!

[craft1948]

Nobody mentioned cracks Boo....it's just a snog he's after.

[B00]

Hahaha, excellent craft!

[mike11111]

Beat me to it, Craft. While I was thinking of a witty riposte about cracks, you got in first.