thats agood point pasta. i think with all those previous relationships where i did cheat, perhaps i kinda knew that it wasn't the full on mind blowing real long term thing and nver went as far as marriage. my woman now is my wife. i know its early but you gotta start somewhere. perhaps these people who have affairs just settled for the wrong person, or for the men at least, want tobe able to knob around without morre commitment.
legend also makes a good point. the lesbo thing is fine and great in the confies of your own home and viewing pleasure, but it does wear thin on thread after thread.
and jj, i agree about aniston. try frieda pinto....