personal bedroom question!

[razmataz]

My boyfriend always wants to perform oral sex on me, and he says he can do so happily for hours. However, I don't understand why he enjoys doing it so much. I don't always want it to continue for so long. LOL. Surely he gets tired and wants to take a break. Does anyone know why some men are so into this ? Thanks

[Lakitu]

I've wondered why too, no men seem to be forthcoming with some insight though.

[SKA]

well as someone who's going through a hate men phase I have to say he proberly does want something in return

[ChuckFickens]

I'd say it was because it is very gratifying giving pleasure to a person you love,

[gen2]

Maybe he has become addicted to your pheromones?

[razmataz]

chas, it is incredibly intimate but one wouldn't want to do it to just anyone. It must be that one wants to become closer to that individual, you know, to warrant wanting to do it so eagerly.

It must be because the man is really into that person? Or maybe that is naive!

[ChuckFickens]

no your not being naive at all, if you really are "into" somebody as you put it then just seeing them happy is reward enough

[chas2008]

i wouldnt want to if i wasnt attracted to that person, couldnt imagine doing it for the sake of doing it, maybe thats just me..and old fashioned romantic

[razmataz]

chuckfickens-I don't think he loves me we've only been together three months. SKA I am sorry to hear about the phase you are going through. More insight from men-lol-good on you Lakitu!

[MrBounty]

Maybe he enjoys seeing you enjoy yourself.....that is, of course, if you do enjoy it.

Some men like to do it, others dont.

It's just one of those things that you either love to do it or you dont - and for this guy, not only does he like doing it, he really likes doing it!!

Personally, i love doing it - i love to seeing the woman enjoying herself and getting close to that pinnacle, and knowing that it's me doing it.

[Lakitu]

Chuck's last post has made me feel a bit sad LOL

[razmataz]

Cheers Mr Bounty. But you only do it to women you really like right?

[andy-hughes]

I think it is an intimate act - there is an element of unspoken trust about letting a man that close to your special places.

Personally, it is the feeling of pleasuring a woman that i love, and I can do it for as long as she is enjoying it. That said, I do offer some variety, and watch and listen for the signals that she'd like something else.

I have no hidden motiives at all!

[MrBounty]

Well, i only have sex with women i really like! lol

But i see what you're getting at.......but i must admit that oral sex is something i enjoy doing, so i would want to do it most times im having sex.....but if the act wasnt wanted, then i wouldnt do it.....if you know what i mean?

[MrBounty]

Lol @ "special places"

It's like being taught about the birds and the bees again!! :)

[Octavius]

razmataz, are you the one with the married man? You have a very similar prose.

As said by Chuck, men and women like to please and pleasure their partners and in doing so get an enormous amount of pleasure out of it themselves. So in effect, whilst giving you are also receiving - one of the wonders of intimate sex.

As suggested, why not just encourage him to focus on other parts of your body as well. It would seem far more fun and productive if you just asked him, rather than us.

[razmataz]

Of course you only have sex with women you really like. Lol. Would not suggest otherwise.

It's just the length of time he could do it for. How do I really know he is thinking of me when he does it? I am just insecure about it.

I never seem to accept that it is probably a good thing!

[razmataz]

Octavius, I looked at the thread last night about the married man. Lerlus was it? I assure you it is not me. What makes you think that?

[MrBounty]

Raz - have you had bad / not as good experiences with receiving this act in the past?

[razmataz]

I just looked at the lerler post. We do have similar writing styles. Although I don't much like the accusation!

Bounty, I just always feel I cannot say to him if I am not enjoying it. It's like it would ruin the moment (the intensity). I don't always enjoy his technique.