Entrapment

[stevie1time]

I just saw a programme about an agency in America that women can go to if they think their fella is cheating..Hire a fit,young attractive girl to come on to him and see if he takes the bait??? I think thats bang out line....What you reckon folks?? ( also the word THINK is important in this question)

[blu3wave]

yawn, who cares?
If you have doubts, dump the pr1ck.

[REDHEAD24]

well if u have ur doubts then i can see why you would use it .

at the end of the day if ur going to cheat ur going to cheat aint u

better off knowing i think

[cazzz1975]

Maybe its useful to see if the person your with has moral values?

surely if you are commited you can resist temptation?

[stevie1time]

No,what i mean its like Entrapment...say the fella isnt cheating...but for instance......i am trying to stay off the beer for 2 weeks,im doing well,BUT stick a nice ice cold pint of Stella in front of me and i may be tempted!

[blu3wave]

well go on then, stop boring us with stupid boring Q's like this that we've read a million times before.

Nobody cares, nobody's jealous anymore.

[REDHEAD24]

its different to a pint htough aint it - its someones feelings - and ur relationship with them - whilst i get ur point - if u were that in love i do not think u would be tempted that is just my opinion

[stevie1time]

Blu chill out wench...Yanks eh! Have no command of the English etiquette....Also with such a negative attitude no wonder your single...People must be Jealous because there is an obvious call for such an Agency and someone even paid to make a programme about it....Anyway,if thats boring heres a question for you...If you had no feet,would you buy shoes for yourself...???

[Ice.Maiden]

Lol Stevie - yes, I'd buy a pair or three of Jimmy Choo's, set them in front of me, and think: "If only........" !!!!

[Petal~flower]

If it only takes a couple of pints of Stella, for you to be tempted.

Then you cant think much of your girlfriend

[stevie1time]

Petal,im a single fella,it would take heaven and earth as a price for me to cheat...I just dont understand why an agency exists or people are paid to tempt persons who may be cheating but may not be...its like chuckin a spanner into a system that works fine,just to see what happens..I learnt a long time ago that the most important thing in any relationship is TRUST..if trust is gone then there is no point..

[karmabum]

I reckon if you had enough doubts to go to the trouble of hiring someone to tempt your partner, you've already crossed the line and your relationship is down the tubes. Imagine if the guy found out how he'd been set up ...I doubt if he'd feel like staying faithful any more even if he'd been beyond reproach up till then.
PS it's a sad thing, but I think stevie hit it on the head with his remark about a nice cold beer. As much as we women would like to believe otherwise, an awful lot of men would regard the 'having' of an available woman on a par with a free beer. Call me Cynical but.

[chakka35]

blu3wave, are you ever going to answer the question I specifically posted for you on 26/11/07 at 18.17 on the R&S site?
I'd hate to think that you were either ill-mannered or an intellectual coward.

[mrs_overall]

This isn't just confined to the USA, there are agencies in the UK that offer the same service.

[Skreecheeboy]

What a ridiculous notion. It takes a lot of will power for men not to stray at the best of times but this is like waving a flag at a bull. Look at most males of the animal species, they have multiple partners, have you never seen deer during the rutting season? Setting somebody up with a beautiful woman is definately entrapment.