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Phone messages to ex-wife
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My boyfriend left his mobile phone at mine the other day....and I know I shouldn't have done (wait for it!), but I flicked through his texts. He'd sent a message to his ex-wife who he claims to hate, saying how stunning she looked when he saw her when he went to collect his boys. Can't approach it with him, as he'll know I've been through his phone. But can't get it out of my head. Any suggestions ?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I would mention it i wouldnt care that i went down his phone the slime ball, im sorry to say something is happening here he sounds a player and i would tell him where to go.
Or you could make some hints like, oh i see yuor ex the other day, god she looked stunning! just see what reaction you get! play him at his own game.
BTW did he have a text back from her atall?
Or you could make some hints like, oh i see yuor ex the other day, god she looked stunning! just see what reaction you get! play him at his own game.
BTW did he have a text back from her atall?
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this is going to eat you up until you get it out in the open. You are going to have to be brave and come clean. just say you know it was wrong to read his texts but it looks like its a good job you did! you need to ask him what hes playing at and dont take any lies! hes obviously not serious about you, no one sends stuff like that to their ex....
or you could not say anything and have another 6 months of a relationship before you catch them at it or he dumps you and gets back with her. Dont be second best. Have some self respect......
or you could not say anything and have another 6 months of a relationship before you catch them at it or he dumps you and gets back with her. Dont be second best. Have some self respect......
Hi Libellule77
I would definitely mention it - before you put any more time in to the relationship. It's better to know sooner rather than later if it's not going to work out the way you wish. It could be something really innocent, but if it's not it's best to know to save further heartache.
Did you look through his mobile because in the back of your mind you thought something may be there?
I would definitely mention it - before you put any more time in to the relationship. It's better to know sooner rather than later if it's not going to work out the way you wish. It could be something really innocent, but if it's not it's best to know to save further heartache.
Did you look through his mobile because in the back of your mind you thought something may be there?
If i were you id get rid of him, lifes to short to be wasting your time on someone like that. 6 months is quite a long time and you may really care about him but it will be easier to confront him now than another 6 months down the line, trust me it will play on your mind the hole time and ruin your relationship anyway.
Talk to him.
There's a bigger issue here than you going down his phone. Although be prepared for him to be mightly p1ssed off about that. Especially if he's actually not guilty of anything other than being a thoughtless muppet.
And if he is just a muppet then you might want to have a look in to why you went through his phone in the first place.
There's a bigger issue here than you going down his phone. Although be prepared for him to be mightly p1ssed off about that. Especially if he's actually not guilty of anything other than being a thoughtless muppet.
And if he is just a muppet then you might want to have a look in to why you went through his phone in the first place.