Women And Badboys

[lightbulb247]

one of my friends sons seems to be having girl problems at school. He asked me why is it most young girls (by young meaning around 15-19) tend to avoid nice guys and often go with the louder often ruder more popular guys. While this was a farely simple question, it left me thinking.

Why is this?

[Sqad]

\\\\\the louder often ruder more popular guys.\\\

These lads are exciting, one gets a "white knuckle" ride as to the nice guys, they are just that ....nice guys.

[frugalfred]

Because the loud, rude ones are "trophies" - the gals can boast.

[B00]

And the nice ones are dull.

Least to teens

(sometimes)

[Prudie]

Unfortunately he'll need to get used to it, lots of us grown women are the same.

[Psybbo]

Which is why we all love Sqad (the bounder)

[IggyB]

Its not the niceness its the confidence - confidence is attractive but hard to achieve if it doesn't come naturally (though faking it works!)

[tamborine]

bad boys request dates soonest

[Dee Sa]

its the way of the world I'm afraid, life is never fair.

[Scarlett]

It's the alpha male thing. The strongest, fiercest, loudest wins the female. Not the kind or nicest.

[beso]

scarlett //It's the alpha male thing. The strongest, fiercest, loudest wins the female. Not the kind or nicest.//

Sure, but nice guys are still found in the population because the alpha males get so distracted fighting that some girls get chatty with a guy who is far more interested in them than competing.

The boy needs to be patient. Only one girl is required so it doesn't really matter how many chase the alphas. If usually takes a while for the girls to work out what is good for them.

Moreover, eventually the alphas become omegas while the girls with good judgement go on fancying the interesting man.

[coccinelle]

Nothing to worry about, once the nice guy gets a smart car and shows he's got money then he'll be overwhelmed with lady fans.

[TTG]

The girls that are attracted to the "bad boys" are probably "bad girls" themselves and not worth bothering about. He should just be a little more confident, not walked over (when he does meet a girl), keep neat and tidy in appearance and have good conversation. Your friends son will meet a nice girl one day and both will be very happy.