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We used to talk all the time :(

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iheartu | 14:15 Tue 28th Jun 2011 | Relationships & Dating
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So this is sort of a long story, but id really appreciate it if someone could help me :)
So theirs this guy that I met up with a few times and he's funny, smart and handsome! For almost a month we text everyday, I know that this isn't the best way to talk to someone but we just did :)
sometimes we'd text for 12 hours straight right up until 4 o'clock in the morning! But one weekend i told him I was going on holidays for 5 days, when i came back i text him saying and we talked for about an hour.. that was the last time we talked, and that was about 2 weeks ago now.
Has he lost interest or met someone else? I really liked him and we had made plans to go out, but im scared to text him first after 2 weeks of not talking because its just wierd and awkward :(
it's really getting me down, advice needed badly!? :(
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only thing you can do is send him a friendly text saying you'd miss the chats and how about meeting up - keep it light but if he doesn't reply just accept it's run it's course.
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saying "hey how are you" **
why dont you text him and suggest meeting up?
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thanks carmalee, i hope theirs a way we can still be friends though even if he has lost intrest, cause he was a pretty friendly guy :)
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because its been two weeks, and its awkward to say hey after such a long time not speaking compared to how much we did speak :/ but i think i might just text him i missed our chats and see what he says :)
he may be thinking the same things, wondering why youve not been in touch.
blokes just aint so prolific at texting and phone conversations as women.

as said above, keep it short and simple, suggest meeting for a drink and see what happens,
maybe he lost his phone, with your number saved onto it and is hoping you text him! There's all kinds of possibilities so a quick "hello stranger, you've been quiet! ;)" should do the job! Hope it works out for you!
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thanks for the answers guys, it seems you are all suggesting that i text him, so i guess thats the smartest thing to do :')
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pa____ul3...its not that for sure, as we both have facebook and have been online at the same time many times, but neither of us wrote :/ thanks a bundle! :D

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