beejay, shove off, my love!
society, you're right and thank you for remembering. my boss and her deputy have been piling on the pressure recently, and eventually I told them in no uncertain terms that I'd had enough and it was to stop. I mentioned the word "bullying" and they shrank away, lol! I don't think I care now. I'm not being unprofessional, I speak to him when I have to.. I just don't want to go back to sharing jokes and going out for walks at lunchtime!
what do you think?