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pinkfluffo | 00:07 Sat 13th Feb 2010 | Body & Soul
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Does anyone hold grudges or do you forget things people have done/said. Do you just let them off or do you stew. I find it very hard to forget things and i think of incidents and things that have angered me that i havent ever brought up or talked about or resolved so i let them fester.....

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No. Too much like negative energy and I don't find that very useful. If I don't like you because of something I perceive you to have done then I just don't bother much with you. If it's someone I have to work/associate with for other reasons then I'm civil, go about my business and am quite happy to see the back of you once you're gone. In most (although obviously not...
13:29 Sat 13th Feb 2010
I don't hold grudges, I drop people from my radar, wipe them from my hard drive and never go back.
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Well, pink I don't fester myself, but if someone is unkind or nasty to me, I let them know about it! and then I think I do hold a grudge, in so much as I am wary of them afterwards...............I feel that things can't be the same really................
If there was an award for who could hold a grudge for the longest I would be a contender for 1st place :)
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i used to hold grudges but life is too short for all that ,i leave it and then try to talk about later even if you can't talk to the person involved it helps to talk to someone close
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what if it is your family and what if they are things that has been said that has annoyed you but they always think they are right (as parents always do) Do you just shrug it off is there any point in saying anything about something that was said months ago?
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Not any more (but still have one from my teens-dark ages, that will never be let go!!) otherwise I try to resolve things and move on.
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yes, April, I think you're right! some Abers have been less than friendly to me in the past, to be fair. not many! but I do hold a grudge, and would never, ever, talk to them again!..........so yes you are right there.................
welshlibranr is one of the nicest people on AB....
My longest held grudges are against family, I have very good reason for all of them though! I don't talk to any of my 6 siblings any longer and have disowned my mum.
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Oh!! thank you craft1948, you're always really good company too! Just proves that most of us are Ok folk here!....................
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I hold gruges with cancer which is killing my mother and making me sad.. and having to rely on others whilst I drive two hundred miles, leaving my kids, to baby sit my dad..
Why have you just posted that I tell lies No Knowledge?
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