I know his secret!!!

[puddicat]

My son and his girlfriend had a abortion!!!

[Ice.Maiden]

Just flipping cold here Tisha - big time.

[pastafreak]

Oh my mr marvel.....I will take that as a compliment...and thankyou

we can agree to disagree from now on-ok??

[Mr-Marvel]

Ok pasta, normal hostilities will resume a.s.a.p.

[pastafreak]

lol

[Tisha33]

been most therapeutic forcing ma opinions on to the literate masses of banked, bog cleaners and all but cava has run out so am off :)

please send me so snow!!!!!

night all xbig wet (no sex(or risk of pregnancy risk!)) kissesx

just a thought.....cyber sex could do away with the need for terminations in a flash! :)

[Ice.Maiden]

: )
Not so good as the real thing though, is it?

[Tisha33]

too true...just off to get mine ;)

although waking the hubby at this hour may not bode well lol

night x

[Ice.Maiden]

Lol! Mine's the opposite. Have to tread very carefully into the bedroom. The slightest thing wakes him, and then.....

I'm going as well.
night to you again, and everyone still around. x

[puddicat]

Thanks for all your responses,its been a few years now and i will never say anything,it was youngest son that told me,when he wasnt on good terms with his brother,my youngest never wanted his girlfriend to have a abortion,but her mum and her decided it was for the best,on reflection it was the right decision as they are no longer together,but still have a ache in my heart for what could of been!!!

[puddicat]

I am none of those zacmaster i can assure you,thats just being down righty nasty!!!

[Velvetee]

I agree Puddicat with that comment being nasty. There will always be some nasty article on here, who feels bad about themselves, so to make themselves feel better, will make some vindictive remark, to bring others down to their level, like the one you received.

You are a normal mother, who is concerned for the wellbeing of her children. Of course it is natural to feel the loss of a Grandchild you never met and will never. Some people haven't the ability to empathise and are simply cold hearted and moronic.

[jno]

I can understand you feeling upset about it, puddicat, but although you can have children if you want to you don't have any right to have grandchildren; it's out of your hands. Perhaps it's because they knew you'd be upset, that they didn't tell you.

[puddicat]

Thanks i would have gone with what ever decision they made,and i wouldnt have try to influence them just would offer up some support!!!

[Velvetee]

The issue is NOT what other people have SENSIBLY input, it's about your nasty, vindictive comment. You do not know this woman, so how dare you make judgements as to what she is like as a person.

You were extremely callous and rude and such comments are unecessary. I don't know what is wrong with certain people on here, who think it is ok to insult people they don't know. I'm sure you wouldn't say this to a work colleague, so what makes you think it's ok here?

[johnny7]

Zacmaster, this whole subject is made up. Puddicat is just looking for attention.

[puddicat]

johnny it is not made up believe me!!!!!!

[johnny7]

So why are you seeking help from randoms on the Internet about a serious issue like abortion rather than your friends or family who know you and your sons?