Spicing things up

[Minxi]

My boyf is lovely in so many ways and i'm very happy with him.

One thing i'd love is for him to have more of the grrr factor towards me, we kiss and cuddle so much and he's incredibly affectionate and intimate which i love.

It would be nice to have some more passionate, rampant moments though. It's almost like he treats me too precious to rip my clothes of and drag me to the bedroom.

Does anyone have any ideas???

TIA xxxxx

[##Wardy##]

Dress up as a schoolgirl and insist that he spanks you. A man has to be master in the bedroom. It is in his genes.

Men and submission is an oxymoron.

[ummmm]

Why don't you rip his clothes off and drag him to the bedroom

[Minxi]

We tend to end up in the bedroom right after making it through the door and he's very docile and gentle in bed which makes things lovely and intimate. He's so sweet and always kissing and cuddling and stroking me and holding my hand.

I think it's maybe cos i'm used to more dominant men in bed.

It is lovely but sometimes it would be nice to feel wanted sexually as well as emotionally and intimately, does that make sense?

[ummmm]

Yes. How long have you been with him?

[whiffey]

You could always ditch him, get someone better. I'm sure that if you tell him all about your previous dominant lovers he will step back and have a few thoughts. I would, I'd be off.

[maggie01]

some people are never satisfied. lol

[Roughquest]

Women are strange, i think you are lucky to have someone so gentle towards you in the bedroom and who takes time to caress you instead of wham bam thank you ma'am, but at the same time us girls do need a bit of a bad boy between the sheets, I know i do! But that said, some days we need TLC, then another time we just want raw sex......YUMMY!

[curly-milf]

your a typical woman roughquest,,,,,,problem is us men never know if its ying or yang you want

[Minxi]

We've not been together that long but it's something very special, i'd never ruin it for a bit more passion.

I spose if i'm honest it's cos i've been treated like a piece of meat in former relationships and it's thrown me a bit, i guess i'm not used to it and part of me is worried he doesn't fancy me enough.

I love the fact we can just lie in each others arms for hours, the way he gazes and me and watches me sleep and is so affectionate. Maybe i'm just being paranoid, just the only other guy i've known to be like that is now happily living with his boyfriend!

[beryllium]

we need both curly!!! ;-)

[PinkFizz]

If you've not been together long them maybe he doesn't know how you feel?? Maybe he is dying to be a bit more caveman-like but doesn't want to put you off.

[beryllium]

Minxi,just enjoy. :-)

[curly-milf]

to be honest minxi, try geting him after lots of alcohol when he will be less inhibited, and more open to suggestion



problem is beryllium, when your thinking ying, men are thinking yang and the other way round

[curly-milf]

ps...........try dressing trashy

[Minxi]

Oooh i bought myself some gorgeous new underwear in the sales today :) :) :)

[beryllium]

awwwww Curly, I don't think in advance I just go!!! and then if a session is achieved then all the better......
hmmmmmmmmm..... me thinks I've had 1 too many June Bugs tonight, and No, he's not on a promise!

[chicklin]

When you're lying together in an intimate moment ask him what he likes, what would he like you to do. Then it gives him an opportunity for him to ask you the same. Don't be afraid to tell him what you like but make it clear that you also love him being gentle too. You don't want to bruise his ego or have him think he's doing it wrong! So don't give any negative comments, just mention that sometimes it turns you on when he's being more dominant.

[Athley]

Now you've let the cat out of the bag don't you think you should get this question removed if he sees the site???


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