At the end of the day, all you did was tell the truth. You don't deserve all this horrendous stuff being chucked at you. You are not in the wrong - they are for treating you like this and trying to lay the blame where it doesn't belong. Well, as you know, you can pick your friends but you can't pick your family. So I think all you can do for now is hold up your head, knowing you did the right thing, and get on with your life with your own little family and let the rest of them stew in their own juices! I know you can't just ignore them for ever, but as has already been said, these things have a way of coming out in the open eventually. So in the end they'll all see that they have done a horrible thing to you, that you were telling the truth all along and then I hope they have the good grace to apologise! Till then, just enjoy your life...x