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Anyway, there are loads of things going around in my head and i'm not sure what to do. He's invited me to Leeds in a couple of weeks to see what kinds of things he does, but i'm worried he may want a kiss. We got on really well and I'm really glad that he's met the 'real' me not just me when i'm drunk or tipsy but I can't figure out how far to go with this. If I decided not to tak e it further, how can I say it to him without hurting his feelings? He really is a MAN and not a lad, so iknow i should go for it.
Sorry for the novel, but I'm REALLY out of touch! Thanks! X
Sorry for the novel, but I'm REALLY out of touch! Thanks! X
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I agree with some comments on here - you were probably nervous because you met him online and it is strange to put the online persona together with the offline one. My friend married a man she met in a chatroom and he was so nervous about first meeting that he postponed their first date for over 6 months - even though they lived in neighbouring cities!
I say, don't stress too much about this. Also, the usual alcohol-lubrication we usually do on dates did not kick in, which probably made you more self-concious than you would be normally.
Sounds like an OK guy - not all physical attraction is instant - if you have other things in common you may find the attraction will come later.
good luck! better than dating a pauper!
I say, don't stress too much about this. Also, the usual alcohol-lubrication we usually do on dates did not kick in, which probably made you more self-concious than you would be normally.
Sounds like an OK guy - not all physical attraction is instant - if you have other things in common you may find the attraction will come later.
good luck! better than dating a pauper!
I can see why he goes on chatrooms, that'd be so he has anonymity and might meet a girl whose right for him and who'd be unaware intitally and unimpressed by his wealth, that's not hard. Selling cars myself as I do, I notice if you turn up anywhere in an Aston Martin then women throng, if you're in a transit van, they have to concentrate not to spit on you sometimes.
I'm a bit confused about the Beckham reference though, I wouldn't imagine that they would buy cars via an agent, although I might be wrong and what sort of watch is it he has?
I think you did the right and polite thing in not drinking or smoking, no-one likes a drunk, but if you want a future with this bloke then you have to either decide to let him in on the real you or address your drinking and smoking on a permanent basis which might be easier said than done.
I'd just take it really slowly, it's early days yet, just see what comes of it.
I'm a bit confused about the Beckham reference though, I wouldn't imagine that they would buy cars via an agent, although I might be wrong and what sort of watch is it he has?
I think you did the right and polite thing in not drinking or smoking, no-one likes a drunk, but if you want a future with this bloke then you have to either decide to let him in on the real you or address your drinking and smoking on a permanent basis which might be easier said than done.
I'd just take it really slowly, it's early days yet, just see what comes of it.
Here I am!!!!!!!!!!!...... I was waiting for my boss to go on a half day today..... so I'm all yours...
Be patient, I'm trying to answer eveyone's questions... I realise how ridiculous it all sounds, but the last thing I want is for him to see this and lets face it, its not as if he's not going to know it's not me... my name isn't disguised like everyone elses!
1. Noxlumous is right about the girls as you can imagine... and he's not bad looking which adds to this, no matter what car he drives....
2. He didn't just tell me about his businesses, everything just came up in chit-chat... I work in an office for financial support but my degree is in Fine Art, so naturally, I was interested in the design part of it... and just getting to know one another, we were talking about what we do for a living.
3. Missy R, I think he's got a business up here, but not sure its in Sunderland.
4. He's NOT a celebrity and I obviously hadn't heard of him before, and I wouldn't expect to know of him as I don't know anything about his trade and I certainly would never have the opportunity to get to know him as I can't afford to go to the places he goes and I don't have any interest in his cars... I'm not dating his cars! I'm not even sure if I'm going to keep dating HIM!
5. Barbara Cartland IS dead..... ;oD
Be patient, I'm trying to answer eveyone's questions... I realise how ridiculous it all sounds, but the last thing I want is for him to see this and lets face it, its not as if he's not going to know it's not me... my name isn't disguised like everyone elses!
1. Noxlumous is right about the girls as you can imagine... and he's not bad looking which adds to this, no matter what car he drives....
2. He didn't just tell me about his businesses, everything just came up in chit-chat... I work in an office for financial support but my degree is in Fine Art, so naturally, I was interested in the design part of it... and just getting to know one another, we were talking about what we do for a living.
3. Missy R, I think he's got a business up here, but not sure its in Sunderland.
4. He's NOT a celebrity and I obviously hadn't heard of him before, and I wouldn't expect to know of him as I don't know anything about his trade and I certainly would never have the opportunity to get to know him as I can't afford to go to the places he goes and I don't have any interest in his cars... I'm not dating his cars! I'm not even sure if I'm going to keep dating HIM!
5. Barbara Cartland IS dead..... ;oD
He reads Topgear magazine and seen him on tv. Don't forget, I don't think HE'S famous, but obviously in that kind of industry he will be well known.
But I'll ask him more when he comes out his meeting.... (my colleague)... one of his websites is www.projectkahn.com not really checked it out as I can't download some kind of flasher on my work computer... How come you find it so difficult to believe... I wanted advice because I wanted to show how far out of depth I am and wanted to know how anyone else would cope. x.
But I'll ask him more when he comes out his meeting.... (my colleague)... one of his websites is www.projectkahn.com not really checked it out as I can't download some kind of flasher on my work computer... How come you find it so difficult to believe... I wanted advice because I wanted to show how far out of depth I am and wanted to know how anyone else would cope. x.
Ok thats cool , I got a bit of a slating from one person saying asking what my next fantasy was, so i was a bit upset... why lie, especially when i'm asking for advice on dating! Nevermind... get your boyfriend to check out the site... I reckon that if my colleague has heard of him before i even mentioned his name, he may have heard of him.
In the mean time, I'll just have to wait and see for myself when I do eventually visit him, although of course i'm wary... a good-looking guy with a lot of money will be used to girls throwing themselves at him and i'm not about to stoop that low! X
In the mean time, I'll just have to wait and see for myself when I do eventually visit him, although of course i'm wary... a good-looking guy with a lot of money will be used to girls throwing themselves at him and i'm not about to stoop that low! X
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