Do you find it easy to tell someone you love them ?

[inej]

I am not very at saying it to anybody's face , but if i have to write it down i can pour my heart out ? Do you find it easy ?

[pinksmartie]

it's like trying to tell someone you're sorry lol.

[Greedyfly]

Once said then yes but the intial first time I find very hard, I guess it makes people feel vulnerable. But it is a word not to be taken too lightly and I guess thats part of the reason some people find it hard to say because they really mean it. Whereas those who say it maybe to often to, too many people obviously find it too easy to say.

In my experience though, once you finally have the courage to say how you feel the person its being said to knows you mean it. I think its a good thing that we dont find it too easy to say - means it is isnt flippant.

[whiskeysheri]

I say it everyday. Ever since I was little I've told my family how much I love them everyday. My mum's parents have never told her and she didn't want for it to be like that for us.

I don't think we say it so that it doesn't mean what it should, but I think it's important.

PS- I always say it to my grandparents xxx

[Dan Glebitts]

I am going to do it tomorrow for the first time, im bloody sh*ttin' myself!

[Redbel]

I'm like you inej, you want to say it but find it easier to put in words. I think whiskeysheri summed it up there, I know she said about her grandparents, but my parents never said it even though we knew they loved us. I tell my b/f all the time that I love him, but I do leave him notes and put in them the things I don't say to his face, I know I should just say it. I think it's a trait from when I was younger, because it wasn't ever said to me. But I'm getting better.

I had my little grandaughter staying over last night and she always says it.......she just puts her arms out and says......Nanny I Love You.....So I'm glad like whiskey I did say it to my daughter all the time and still do.

[Rubyrose]

I find it really easy. If I want to say it, that is. I can tell people anything.. to their face aswell. Doesn't bother me. :o)

[robbo82]

I remember as a kid I would always refuse to say it to my sister. I find it much easier now we're both older; I think time makes you realise what's important in life. Sadly, though, I've never had the pleasure of saying it to anyone in a romantic sense, I've just never felt that way about anyone I've gone out with and don't want to say it if it's not genuine.

[Morrisonker]

I tell my family and close girly friends all the time, but I'm in the situation right now where I'm dying to tell my boyfriend I love him but I think it's too soon so I'm literally having to choke back the words, it's really hard when we're lying in bed together after having sex and we're doing the deep eye stare bit. That's when I said my 'i love yous' with my last boyfriend and it's a hard habit to break.

On that note then - how long do you wait to say I love you for the first time?

[kazzianne]

I say it all the time - but then I decided I would be the total opposite of my mother - she simply cant say it to me(or anybody)I remember going to see her once and as I left I said to her that I loved her and all she said was "Drive safely" and pretended she hadnt heard.She has never ever said it to me,so I now tell my kids all the time,and my boyfriend,Must have rubbed off on them tho - as even my 15 yr old strapping 6ft son will yell me he loves me - in front of his mates!!

[david small]

Very easy. I LOVE YOU.... There, that was not too hard...

[bellasasha]

me and my family tell each other every day....i find it very easy to say to people, sometimes too easy!!!!

good luck dan!!

[Champagne]

Yes. The way I see it you never know when you may see that person again so if you love them, tell them! When I get tipsy I tell my friends all the time. They love it! They end up throwing their arms around me and gushing, �I love you too!�.

[smudge]

I find it easy to say "I love you", but only if I mean it, otherwise I wouldn't say it at all.

From a very early age, I would kiss Mum & Dad goodnight & say "I love you" - it carried on throughout my life.

I'm glad to say my husband, our daughters, Grandchildren & siblings often say "I love you too".

[peachy3]

i av told a few people i love them but it is alwys true in sum shape or form, easy as askin for ur daily paper at shop! 2 me anyway ;-)

[peachy3]

i think love is very overated!