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First Date, is he interested ???
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I went on a date thursday night. We met through a dating website but discovered he only lived 5 minutes away from each other. Anyway, we have been chatting a few weeks and got on like a house on fire. He asked me to go for a drink last minute thursday night, I was abit hesitant as didn't wana look desperate or anything but agreed. He took me to a pub which we both haven't been in before (I asked not to go local, he wanted to) we didn't stay long. When we drove back we talked about all sorts and he kept saying he loved my positive outlook on life. He also said he felt as ease and very relaxed around me which was good, A few times he also wanted to tell me he wasn't looking for a one night stand he actually wanted a relationship.
We ended up back at his, lying on his bed (no tele in the living room of his flat) watching Kymatica on youtube. He casually asked me could I do an indian head massage on him, I said no, 10 minutes late he asked me to do a hand massage I again said no. Then he asked me to tickle his back, I ended up doing it. It was funny. I may state that at no point neither of us where put in a situation on any sexual level. He kept putting his hand on me like in an affectionate way.
He gave me a big hug and kissed me on the cheek goodnight. He's been away for the weekend visiting his daughter and I've been busy too. I haven't text him and I haven't heard from him. We didn't mention another date so I'm not too sure? Guess it's a waiting game.
He is exactly my type and he seems like a lovely guy. Hes 10 years older than me, hes an aries and Im a sagitarrius.
What do we think??? xxx
We ended up back at his, lying on his bed (no tele in the living room of his flat) watching Kymatica on youtube. He casually asked me could I do an indian head massage on him, I said no, 10 minutes late he asked me to do a hand massage I again said no. Then he asked me to tickle his back, I ended up doing it. It was funny. I may state that at no point neither of us where put in a situation on any sexual level. He kept putting his hand on me like in an affectionate way.
He gave me a big hug and kissed me on the cheek goodnight. He's been away for the weekend visiting his daughter and I've been busy too. I haven't text him and I haven't heard from him. We didn't mention another date so I'm not too sure? Guess it's a waiting game.
He is exactly my type and he seems like a lovely guy. Hes 10 years older than me, hes an aries and Im a sagitarrius.
What do we think??? xxx
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a 'hand massage' is that something to do with massaging hands or using hands to massage something!
13:34 Mon 09th May 2011
not sure about that. how much can you believe in what a person says on a first meeting? sounds like he was trying to butter you up to see if he could push you further get something else from you. i would leave the ball in his court definately. dont go chasing him. age has nothing to do with it and neither do star signs
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helen, you filthy minx ;)
Maybe he feels that he doesn't want to be too pushy. Maybe he doesn't want to do all the running. You could give it a few days and then, if you haven't heard from him, text him. Not with an invite, but something like 'hi, just thinking about you. Thanks for the other night.' That way, the ball's in his court.
Maybe he feels that he doesn't want to be too pushy. Maybe he doesn't want to do all the running. You could give it a few days and then, if you haven't heard from him, text him. Not with an invite, but something like 'hi, just thinking about you. Thanks for the other night.' That way, the ball's in his court.
