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Thing 1 and thing 2 got their first joint Christmas card today, all 4p worth - really annoyed me as a kid (birthday cards to 'the twins'), argh, why don't people think?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I would never do that. I consider it rude and inconsiderate. And if anyone has a birthday near Christmas they get two completely separate presents from me. Even if it was on Christmas Day, they would still get two separate presents worth just as much as they would have got had their birthday fallen in the middle of June.
I'm a boxing day baby.... I've had presents/cards grouped together by various relatives for years although my immediate family and friends don't do it. It's really not that big of an issue... plus christmas is expensive so I can kind of see why people might want to buy one nice present rather than two not so good presents... I still don't think it's a big deal.
They don't register it, I have past resentment so I am determined that they are just thought of as brother and sister who happened to be born on the same day (probably have to have been there to get it). There is another set of twins in the class (there are loads of twins around here), wouldn't dream or sending them one card, and thing 1 and 2 'sent' individual cards to the rest of the class.
i sell cards for twins at work but only the birth of, not for birthdays, and often people buy the same card twice and tell me it is for twins, certainly i have sold christmas cards this last week to people buying for twin nephews/nieces and they have bought the same card , one lady bought to a great grandson and to a great granddaughter at christmas and told me they were twins. it's not a big deal to get the right card for the right occasion but people sometimes think they are being thoughtful and inclusive rather than differentiating.
CD, that's why we don't all them the 'twins', so it doesn't become an issue. It's horrible when you aren't seen as your own person, when you are always grouped in with someone else, probably have to have been me to get it (probably not all twins were brought up the same). Big deal to us that they feel valued in their own right. Just think its a bit tight over a 4p card.
it is my birthday the week before xmas so i too have had the joint gift thing, and it only bothered me if it felt like an excuse to get out of buying 2 gifts and the gift was half as good as my siblings got.
this year i saved my bf's gift from oct to add to his xmas gift so i could get something twice the value... and hes made-up
this year i saved my bf's gift from oct to add to his xmas gift so i could get something twice the value... and hes made-up
Yeah but that's what I'm saying, those that count will make sure that they are seen as two individual people, such as your family and their close friends and obviouisly you... others will send cards like we used to get 'to the girls'... It's you that makes the difference and promotes their sense of value as human beings. Going off on one about it (no matter how mildly) just reinforces the idea that they're different to other kids, which is what you're trying to get away from.... Like I said, I'm sorry but I think it's your issue, not theirs.
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