when you got married

[gina32]

did it make a difference to the relationship? did you feel more secure, or hemmed in, was it the best thing you ever did or the worst?? thanks

[craft1948]

which time?.........hang on........no...no...no....hemmed in...hemmed in.....secure.......worst.....worst....okay.....thanks

[dot.haukes]

When I married it brought us closer, as he was serving in the RAF 250 miles away and I was working in Southport. We married and moved into a married quarter on the base, it was a very isolated life for myself at first but I soon settled in and found an amazing social life, way beyond the amazing social life i had lived before even! (and that was pretty good), and that actually saw us drift apart for a few years as he went on his fitters course to halton and i was on my own most weeks for 6 months, then he went to iceland for a month climbing glaciers for some science thing, it wasn't until he came out in 1982 that we started to really be a family as i had just had my eldest sone and we moved up to our own house in lancashire.

[yogi.bear]

Hi Gina

Three year courtship with mrs bear........married now for 17 years this August ,and yes,.......... it was the best thing i ever did, along with fathering four lovely cubs, with her too.

It must be so bad for people that marry thinking it would be better for them.....but find they/they're partners change and become stale, boring and everyday!..........able to talk about anything, trust and knowing each other better than you know yourself........helps a lot, i would think!
We just stay the way we were, when we first met and never take each other for granted!............she's my best friend, my lover, mum to my cubs, and my missus!!

x

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[No,Knowledge]

i hope the mrs never see this but imo a waste of friggin money.

[LFCFan5]

I have been married for a year, didnt change our relationship, still very happy. One of the best days of my life, would love to do it again, still coo over our photos.

Are you getting married??

[coccinelle]

My problem was the in-laws, once we were married it was as if they owned me and could do or say anything to my face (quite nasy things too). Before we were married they were polite and showed respect!!

[ummmm]

I'm getting married :-) I don't want a big wedding so it's either a Gretna Green job or Los Vegas.....I think he wants the latter :-)

[rinkins]

ummmm did he ask you again? Did you get that ring yet?!

[craft1948]

oooh ummmm go for something really tacky and tasteless in Las Vegas......much better than the norm....

[sqad617]

ummm...try Las Vegas.

Yogi.....is yogi too good to be true?........LOL

Why do you think that marriage is going to change anything?

Que sera sera............being married makes s0d all difference............except to the woman.

[gossipgirl]

i got married to my ex at the tender age of 18, he was in the RAF and was based in oxford and i was in wales. Wehad a baby on the way, and as the advert goes.....we wanna be together! so we got married, in a crappy registry office with no guests. and i wasnt even allowed to invite my parents It was the worst mistake of my life, he was a violent bully and it took me 6 years to track the ******* down to get a divorce lol. If i could turn back time i would.
However i now with the man of my dreams and i cant wait to marry him and have the day ive been dreaming about since i was a little girl and have all my family and friends there x

[ummmm]

Los Vegas here I come...!!

And no...the gobsh!te hasn't got me a ring. Not that I thought he would..!!!

[craft1948]

wouldn't worry about a ring ummmm......all my exes bought me rings....means bu88er all.....

[rinkins]

This will sounds horrible, I have the ring from my last mistake (didn't marry thankfully). Can't wear it but at least I am sitting on �2k of platinum when I need it LOL

He wasn't getting that back!!

[craft1948]

gave all mine to the daughter .........probably on ebay now...

[gossipgirl]

like your style rinkins. i shouldve held on to mine but he asked for them back in the divorce. He got the ring, i got a divorce

[rinkins]

Well he got to keep his Tag!

Unfortunately I am still tied though because we haven't sold the house :-( I think I'd give the ring back if it meant I didn't have any ties!

[yogi.bear]

Sqad....................Lol

Hope you're well, you lovely old sausage!

If you play snooks...remember........cool.......you know the rest! and....good luck!

yogi
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[gina32]

lfcf, no im not getting married, i just wondered what were peoples experiences of being single to being married

[Bbbananas]

oh ummm,,, you do make me laugh:

"The Gobsh1te hasn't got me a ring..."