Lesbian refused a rose.

[anotheoldgit]

http://www.telegraph....-a-proper-couple.html

Would it had been sexiest as well as homophobic if they had also refused to give a rose to a male partner of a gay diner?

[Kristal53]

@jack - LOL! I can look on red tube if I'm that interested ;-)

[andy-hughes]

Kristal53 - why does "one has to be Joe and one Joanne -if you get my drift.....or do they flip a coin?"

as I pointed out in my post, gay relationships are every bit as complex as heterosexual relationships, there is no division of roles along the lines you suggest - and I was at pains to poiint out that such an assumption is an out-of-date stereotyping which should be well on its way out in 2012.

If we follow your logic, that means that all men must mow the lawn, pay the biills, go out to work, wear a suit, smoke a pipe and ignore the children, and all women must cook, clean, stay at home, have tea on the table when hubby comes in, and submit to sex whenever he demands it.

It's not like that is it? It's not like that for 'Jo and Joanne' either.

[pa___ul3]

I think Kristal's doing the classic - when talking about gay people we must only consider their sexual activity. Let's just call them both Jo eh!

[Davethedog]

Smirk

As they say AOG the proof is in the posting and as they also say the truth hurts.

Insulted are you? I would think there are a number of people who would feel the biter is being bitten., but both you and I know you have a much thicker skin than that.

Don't lose any sleep will you.

[Kristal53]

@ANDY - um how can I put this - I was not suggesting that within a gay male couple relationship the traditional male/female roles would be adhered to - I was referring to the act of sexual intercourse one has to be the rabbit and one the....

[andy-hughes]

OK then, if each partner has a 'rabbit' and each has a ... ' then they can make their own arrangements can't they? I can't see what the question is here.

[bednobs]

so, is your sex life entirely about penetration? you NEVER do anything else? if not, why would a gays sex life just be about that?

[ludwig]

Wow. It's gone from a couple being refused a rose in a restaurant to rabbits and holes and penetrative sex and strap on dildos. This is why I keep coming back to answerbank.

Oh sorry, just realised I was the first to mention strap on dildos.

[andy-hughes]

LOL ludwig!

The Internet equivalent of 'Did I say that out loud?'

[pizza]

What a cool site and we should all meet we are the the prick.. ly abbers
mmm

[anotheoldgit]

/// Wow. It's gone from a couple being refused a rose in a restaurant. ///

So it is only fair to close it on a rose.

Did anyone notice on last night's 'Benidorm' that a gay guy, gave another gay guy a ROSE.

[anneasquith]

my concern aog is that you watch benidorm !

[FredPuli43]

Read the whole of this thread and are still wondering why a man, gay or straight, can't be offered a rose (or flowers generally, and in quantity, come to that). Is it some insult ? If it is, it's cultural here. Certainly in a male gay partnership the rose should be offered, since it's a symbol of romance. It's just convention that a woman receives it in the heterosexual partnership.