Boyfriends friend tried it on with me, should i tell him?

[Joanne130]

My boyfriend has a friend he has known since childhood, last weekend we had a small party at ours, his friend followed me into the kitchen & touched me on the bum then put his arms around my waist, i immediately asked him what he thought he was doing & he laughed & said sorry i was only messing about, he had had a bit to drink but i know if my bf knew he would blow a fuse, should i tell him? i don't think his friend will do it again but is it being dishonest to my bf not telling him? i know it would cause an argument between them & i don't want any fuss

[B00]

No

[mojay]

no - definitely not

[Sqad]

Tell him? TELL HIM WHAT? Grow up, no harm was done.

[naomi24]

Leave it.

[NOX]

Of course you shouldn't tell him, that's ridiculous to think it's ' dishonest' not to, just forget it, it's a non happening.

[EcclesCake]

No & no.

[ChocolatChip]

I agree with everyone else, no harm was done. He was probably too drunk and didn't know what he was doing. Surely it's not worth a childhood friendship being destroyed for? Particularly if your boyfriend has a short fuse!

[Joanne130]

That's what i thought no harm was done, it's just we're seeing him again this weekend & i'm gonna feel really uneasy around him, but like you said no harm was done there is no reason for bf to know, thanks for your quick responses

[Sqad]

I have just had a thought.....YES....tell him. It may well be that your boyfriend will be sexually excited and "turned on" by the advance made by his friend.

It is quite popular with men....this voyeurism.

[gness]

If I had a pound for every time...........Ah those were the days. It was a party. Nothing to tell.

[excelsior-1]

i agree with the above, but you should also have a word with the friend and warn him never to do that again

[Hopkirk]

.... but if it happens again you need to, or when BF finds out he will wonder what you are hiding from him.

[Joanne130]

ha ha Squad don't think he'd see it like that, you were right the first time nothing to tell, just wanted confirmation of my gut feeling not to say anything thanks

[Sqad]

Who wants a wife or a girlfriend that nobody else fancies?......not me.

[Mick-Talbot]

& i don't want any fuss


Well don.t cause any then.

[gness]

Now I don`t know if my OH was chuffed other men fancied me or was he a voyeur?

[maggiebee]

If he had a bit too much to drink do you think he will even remember it? No harm seems to have been done and it would be a shame to split your BF and his friend up over this non event.

[Sqad]

gness......ask him.

There is a very fine line between the ultimate in sexual excitation and jealousy,but it may well be worth it....;-)

[gness]

Would Sqad but he`s dead and these bl66dy seances never work.