Advice needed please..

[sluggy_jones]

I've got very close to a girl who I've know for years and who as a boyfriend. Unfortunately we live several miles apart but we call, txt and chat over facebook all the time. She's told me loads of times that she doesn't love him and that he's very controlling. My problem is I see him sending her loved up messages on her facebook and she responds by doing the same. Why is she doing this and tells me she doesn't love him?? I want to shout out and tell him all about our secret phone calls, texts and tell him what she really thinks of him .. Would that be a good idea??? It's driving me mad so any advice would be helpful

[craft1948]

I thought you were married.....................

[tenrec]

Do nothing until she says she loves you!

[snags]

What does your wife think about it?

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[sluggy_jones]

Marriage ended craft1948

[penelope2]

Looks like you've been caught out by eagle-eyed ABs mate.

[sluggy_jones]

People move on you know after when a marriage has ended. Or at least tries to

[craft1948]

You do seem to be slightly immature for a 29 year old.............

[woofgang]

walk away. life is too complicated even at its simplest to be drawn into other peoples' games

[naomi24]

This question seems very familiar. Can anyone remember someone asking something very similar?

[sluggy_jones]

All I'm asking is for a little advice. Not an inquest into my past relationships. Yes I have posted before asking for advice about my ex wife's friendship with an old school colleague and yes she was having an affair with him hence the reason we are no longer together.

[China Doll]

I'd advise stop talking to her.

[naomi24]

Okay, I'll give you my advice. You don't know what she really thinks of him. You only know what she tells you. She's playing games. Move on.

[sluggy_jones]

Thank you. I know that's the answer and it's not easy when you have string feelings for someone to walk away. She's messing both of us about but it's really frustrating when I want to tell the guy what she's been up to with me

[woofgang]

bad move, wont help, walk away.

[naomi24]

Why do you want to tell him? Walk away with your dignity intact and leave her to him. She's his problem then.

[whiskeryron]

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Marriage ended craft1948 // ..17:03 Fri 27th Apr 2012
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Ron.

[Postdog]

Nothing is real in Facebook land

[cathfromsaron]

is she very young because her behaviour is immature?

[beso]

She is a player who boosts her self esteem by controlling the attention of as many men as possible.